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    Mono/poly relationship... can it work?

    Hello Monofeelinlovepoly, A bad (or sloppy) hinge is when a hinge (the man you are dating) doesn't handle his two relationships (you and his secondary partner) discreetly. An example of that would be that he shares stuff about one partner (you) with the other partner (his secondary) that you...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    5:52 p.m., Wednesday the 21st It looks like my winning streak is being followed by a losing streak. Today makes two bot games in a row that I have lost. I don't understand how/why I am losing these games, my tactics and strategy just aren't good enough to compete at this level. At least not...
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    Hello!

    Greetings Mimo, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. Wow, you guys live long distances apart; are you able to see each other in person very often? I take it your boyfriend is the one in Portugal, and that he is able to visit you sometimes. In between these visits, do you...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    9:21 p.m., Tuesday the 20th I lost today's bot game. I'm not thrilled to be saying that, but it's not like I thought my winning streak could last forever. At least I didn't make any mistakes that I know of, at least not until the end when it didn't matter much how well I played anyway. I don't...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    10:09 p.m., Monday the 19th I won today's bot game, I'm astonished to be able to say that, I thought I was going to lose for sure. What a nerve-racking game. I made a couple of mistakes that I'm aware of, but somehow managed to survive. This was with me playing black against Vinh. Next, I'll...
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    Returning to the poly scene after 6 years.P.E.I. Canada

    PEI sounds like a beautiful place (whatever its limitations).
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    Not on same page about bisexual wife exploring polyamory

    Re (from straighthusbandbiwife): I don't think my two companions would want to stop being married. Including me doesn't make their marriage mean any less to them, they still celebrate their wedding anniversaries, and present themselves to the world as a married couple. Of course, the three of...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    6:24 p.m., Sunday the 18th I won both of my last two bot games, but wow were they ever white-knuckle affairs. I came dangerously close to a draw/stalemate on both of them. Which in my opinion would have been worse than losing. I won playing as black against Nelson, so then I moved on to...
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    Autonomy

    Hi Frankie, The three people in my household/polycule have a little autonomy, but not all that much. We are very tied together in our decision making, especially with regards to the big things (e.g. dating, jobs, and where we live), but even with regards to the little things (e.g. what to watch...
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    Returning to the poly scene after 6 years.P.E.I. Canada

    Greetings islandDom85, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. Correct me if I'm wrong, it sounds like you had two partners, and then you broke up first with one partner (owing to their other partner leading a double life) and then with the other partner. And right now...
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    That was unexpected...

    Sorry to hear he didn't take it well (the news about your growing feelings for him). I'm sure he doesn't mean to be cruel, he is just overwhelmed and maybe a bit scared. Give him some space for awhile so he can process, then ask him if he is ready to dial the relationship up a notch or if he...
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    Not on same page about bisexual wife exploring polyamory

    Hi straighthusbandbiwife, My personal definition of the word "polyamory," is, "relationships in which any one person is romantically involved with two or more other people, with their knowledge and consent." Beyond that limited definition, there is a lot of wiggle room for how polyamory may be...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    1:27 a.m., Saturday the 17th Since my last entry (immediately above), I have played two bot games, the first as black against Jade, and the second as white against Nelson. I'm shocked; I won both. I wouldn't call them easy games, and I'm bummed that I made two significant mistakes that I...
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    In a triad but questioning my sexuality.

    Kitten, do you mean that you'll continue having threesomes, but you'll just tell them right away -- during the threesome -- when something is making you uncomfortable?
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    I love cooking boujee food & Mixing strong drinks.

    Ah, I think I have a better grasp of your situation. It sounds like both of you live in Alaska right now, but you will be moving away in a month or two. And you have decided to be friends going forward, rather than attempt an LDR. Correct me if I got any of that mixed up!
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    Intro/advice

    Re (from Simp): I forgot about this part. Let me just belatedly say that you should probably prepare yourself (emotionally, financially, etc.) for the likelihood that she will eventually leave you (and break up the kids). Maybe there's a way to prepare the kids for that likelihood as well...
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    I love cooking boujee food & Mixing strong drinks.

    Greetings GodKingBacchus, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. You are a lover of life, you have a wide range of toothsome interests, you love to taste life in all its flavors, and you love to prepare food for others. All this adds up to an excellent and well-balanced...
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    Intro/advice

    Well maybe the thing for you to do here is to approach this situation with a, "Not if, but when," type of philosophy. In other words, you pretty well know that this affair your wife is having, isn't going to end well. So maybe the thing to do is to start preparing yourself now, for the...
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    In a triad but questioning my sexuality.

    Sorry to hear that you weren't treated well on the other poly forum. It sounds like you are making progress with your two companions. Good for you for opening up to them. I hope you'll keep us updated as your situation evolves.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    12:10 a.m., Thursday the 15th Today's bot game (technically "today" = yesterday) started exactly the same way as the game previous, but from there the two games couldn't have been more different. Today's game was almost what I would call easy, it was over much sooner, and I won handily. I guess...
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