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  1. Penny

    Penny's Blog

    Okay, parts of Ontario aren't far away. Still, I live within walking distance of the Peace Bridge. I love Canada and am thinking of relocating there someday.
  2. Penny

    Penny's Blog

    Ontario is not far away. I do not have the new passport, but if you come to Buffalo, I will buy you dinner and drinks. I sent you a PM. You are the first person I felt a real connection with, though there are other awesome women here I'd love to get to know. If you ever want to visit, I'll...
  3. Penny

    Penny's Blog

    I am trained enough on an old school typewriter that I find it really, really hard not to rest my fingers on the keys to orient them. I have a very high typing speed on a regular keyboard as a result, but suck at these new-fangled devices. That being said, it is awesome to be my age because I...
  4. Penny

    Penny's Blog

    I have serious gay crushes on you gals. Thought you might enjoy hearing that. I have been on the iPad the hubby bought me almost exclusively, which is harder to type on, otherwise I'd have updated this with stories of super sexy fun times, but I am too anal about typos to do it on this device...
  5. Penny

    Nice to know I'm not just a "whore"

    I love being a slut. Ain't never been a whore. Oooh, and it's Threesome Thursday tonight! Yay!
  6. Penny

    Whole new set of dating "rules?" Or do the old ones still apply?

    Now I'm intimidated because what I have to say isn't mind-blowingly awesome. T-Rex and I could tell we were way into each other in the same way monos do... body language, gaze, blushes, happy terror... Oh those first fluttery almost-kisses... you know, the sort that get aborted with a gasp at...
  7. Penny

    I'm Afraid My Fiance Is Thinking Of Leaving Me

    MrFFR, dude, please use darker colors if you're gonna do the fancy formatting. My eyes are still recovering from the acid green. ETA by Neon: I changed the "acid" green to a darker green and moved the hijacky posts to another thread. Koifish, the closer it gets to the wedding date, the more...
  8. Penny

    New and Confused!

    Not. And you should have gone home sooner because a sick kid is more important than some jackass who's using you to get his jollies.
  9. Penny

    Is it possible to be emotionally poly?

    Lol, I get gay crushes. I also get crushes on guys I don't want to have sex with. I am also physically, even sexually, attracted to people I don't want to have sex with. It's hard to explain, and I'm still contemplating it and how to articulate it.
  10. Penny

    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Yeah, I want to know about this too. My daughter (age six) is becoming attached to T-Rex (my bf). I am allowing their relationship to develop naturally. I want them to figure out how they want to relate to each other, without forcing things into a predefined shape. This weekend, when we were...
  11. Penny

    Is it possible to be emotionally poly?

    I've been thinking rather a lot about the whole romantic love and sexual intimacy thing as it relates to me and my relationships. I think I am heterosexual but panromantic. I am attracted to a wide variety of people, even physically attracted to them, but there are few that I want full-blown sex...
  12. Penny

    about fairness

    It is completely on topic. My husband has experienced bitterness and anger, not directed at me, for exactly the same reasons. That the OP and others experience the same is relevant to the issue. I would expect this happens rather a lot when couples open their relationships.
  13. Penny

    about fairness

    I didn't say you were wrong. I said you had valid points. So, I'm not obliged to prove you wrong. You are so totally bitter. This is not without good reason, as I said. It is your angry, aggressive attitude that I find offensive.
  14. Penny

    about fairness

    I didn't read onto the next page, and the second post makes me a little less pissed off. Also, my husband harbors the same sort of bitterness for similar reasons. It's just, if he put it like that to me, I'd call him an asshole. And then he'd laugh because we've been together for 11 years...
  15. Penny

    about fairness

    Uh... bitter much? I mean, sure there's some truth to this, if the woman in question wants to be used and dehumanized. Aren't we talking about poly here? Again, your points have some validity, but your tone is pissing me off. Yeah, if I wanted to fuck, I could step outside, ask around, and...
  16. Penny

    A letter to my love - Needing space.

    I don't think it sounds that unreasonable given the breaches of trust and all. Sometimes you have to put your foot down and be firm. It is, after all, an ultimatum.
  17. Penny

    Can this really work?

    Yes, it can work. I have been with my husband for 11 years and with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now. So far, so fantastic. It just keeps getting better and better. They have a really good relationship and my husband has stated that he thinks of my boyfriend as part of the family, which...
  18. Penny

    Polyamory? Or NRE addiction?

    Although my educational background is in psychology, it is not in clinical psych, and no qualified therapist would attempt a diagnosis based only on second-hand information. That being said, your wife sounds uncannily like a textbook case of histrionic personality disorder. I suggest you look...
  19. Penny

    Communication Workshop

    Koifish, You have gone through and posted a few brief sentences to every thread in the General Discussion forum. This is actually a little annoying as I am subscribed to many of those threads and your posts contained very little substance. My email was flooded, but when I went to read, there...
  20. Penny

    Polyamory? Or NRE addiction?

    I am not saying she is a bad person, just that her behavior is so strongly indicative of someone who needs to see a therapist or other mental health professional that it boggles the mind. Her behavior is not healthy, and you are not helping her by downplaying that. Having mental health...
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