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  1. HaloOnFire

    Need advice on the dreaded OPP (her idea).

    Go with your gut.
  2. HaloOnFire

    Need advice on the dreaded OPP (her idea).

    That was my thought as well. This smacks of being terribly one sided. The wife must do her own internal work just as her husband has done.
  3. HaloOnFire

    Hi there!!

    Hi, Lexi! Welcome to the forum! :)
  4. HaloOnFire

    Greetings

    Welcome to the board! :) Please be on the lookout for @kdt26417's Welcome post. It's fantastic and a veritable goldmine of info.
  5. HaloOnFire

    Howdy, y'all!

    OOOOO...thank you for this! More reading and discussing. Yay!!!
  6. HaloOnFire

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Mine is from a particular favorite song, from a particular favorite band.
  7. HaloOnFire

    Howdy, y'all!

    This is exactly my whole "thing", if you will. I do not want to put either my husband, any potential partners for either of us, or even myself into an untenable situation. After all, if I love these people like I say that I do, I would not do that. It's not coming from a place of authentic...
  8. HaloOnFire

    Howdy, y'all!

    This was a bad choice of words in this instance. What I meant to say is that, my husband would have his partners and I would have mine. More N or W than triad. (This is also presuming I am using the correct vernacular. If I am not, please correct me :P). And what I mean by into our...
  9. HaloOnFire

    I am so irritated today.

    Honestly, I would love to print this out and stick it on the wall somewhere. The fridge would be the best place since it is used more frequently. :P Thank you, so so much for this!
  10. HaloOnFire

    Partner wants restrictions on my dates

    This is true and it is quite telling that neither of them have stated otherwise. And I may be the only one in the room with this thought/opinion, however, I also find it extraordinarily telling that he hasn't been very quick to state what Amy herself has brought to the table since she's been...
  11. HaloOnFire

    Howdy, y'all!

    My husband and think the more discussion the better. My husband has always enjoyed debates and exploring new ideas. Honestly, if I had the money and the connections, I would love to bring back the idea of salons that used to be very popular among the rich and shameless. We have had quite a few...
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    Partner wants restrictions on my dates

    My husband and I, along with a friend of mine, discussed this thread for quite some time yesterday. My husband's and friend's hot take is that while @Polymark may have initially given the money out of love and care with no strings attached, he is now attempting to retroactively place terms and...
  13. HaloOnFire

    Howdy, y'all!

    I actually signed up back in March, however, I took time to get a feel for the board and read and reflect on everyone's answers. I am especially appreciative of folks linking additional information, It really, really does help us and gives us additional things to discuss/pontificate over. :) I...
  14. HaloOnFire

    Partner wants restrictions on my dates

    In a word, no. Quite frankly, all of his answers smack of deliberate roadblocks as opposed any actual "boundaries", because he is paying for her education. Nothing quite like financial blackmail to grease the skids, amirite? For example (and my favorite part, imo) is his "When I entered into a...
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