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    The Adventures of Spaghetti Cat

    Well, I spent some time with my family In Canada, it was totally wonderful, I even got to meet my sister and her hubby's girlfriend, who is very sweet. Its very obvious L is not used to being away from loved ones for so long, so I felt bad, but M did really well, as we are so used to being...
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    Letting go of my white picket fence

    I don't have any advice, I feel that one of my loves feels like this sometimes and it breaks my heart but I am trying to just be happy that right now we are all happy, that everything eventually leads to sadness or changes so just trying to enjoy the happy moments (its hard but I am trying to...
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    The Adventures of Spaghetti Cat

    And enters complication.... For all intensive purposes, L has been acting single as his family is very nosy and very conservative... which brought him to having a friend offer to be his "wing man" at this party we are all going to.. He didnt know what to say so said that sounds good... We talked...
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    The Adventures of Spaghetti Cat

    Things have been particularly un-crazy lately. L has been working a LOT in addition to school and M also has been working a lot. I am missing out on the time I am used to having with both. IN the main time I have been having some me time.. Not really my favorite thing but not too terrible...
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    The Adventures of Spaghetti Cat

    hmmmm Just wanting to get stuff off my chest, I guess kind of a rant but its long, dont feel obliged to read.. sometimes writing things helps me review them and understand them :) I am having a hard time not juggling my life at the moment... Does that make any sense? For about 3.5 years I did...
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    Poly and facebook

    I am so glad there is no issue, lol I over-worry sometimes:o
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    Poly and facebook

    Yeah that was my bad I didnt realize at the time that if we had 3 friends in common it would be safe to assume they were from the forum. I totally felt like an ass after that, and apologized to mono as I am not trying to cause any kind of drama at all.I did explain to one friend who I was and...
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    Poly and facebook

    My memory is drawing a blank.. did i already add you? If not click the link in my siggy :)
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    The public side of things

    I decided to tell some very close friends that we have an alternative relationship after an incident. One couple I did tell them a bit more but not *who*, because since we are so close I know I would say something just with how comfortable I am. On the other hand L lives a bit far away so its...
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    Poly and facebook

    Pming you! And for the record I am just making my page a poly friendly zone. I don't really intend to write about it on other peoples pages just because i dont know who you have on your page (general you) :)
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    Trying to Understand who I am!

    Welcome to the board!
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    Hourglass - SoCal

    I don't have any advice but welcome to the board!
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    Mewtastic.

    Just wanted to say welcome to the board, i LOVE your name, I am a big cat fan! :D
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    Poly and facebook

    Some who do know what I am talking about still think I am nuts, bu at last Im the good kind of crazy :P
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    A little intro.

    Welcome!
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    Poly and facebook

    Oops, well, it will be okay...I mentioned the forum and had one person already say they don't add people they haven't met in person and I just explained the situation and thanked them for their communication. I just now realized that you were also involved with them! Sorry blonde moment. I...
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    The Adventures of Spaghetti Cat

    Fast Forward to today: Have been with L for about 2 months, been married to M for about 4 years and things are great. We have gone through a bit of drama.... Accidentally got very drunk and said some things that made most of our close group question our marriage, or at least were curious about...
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    The Adventures of Spaghetti Cat

    Anyways I knew right away I wanted to date L. He was funny, sweet and cute! We made jokes about him never dating a white girl before and me never dating a black guy before but that is about as far as that conversation went because basically since it was the first time I was meeting him, I made...
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    The Adventures of Spaghetti Cat

    I thought about starting a blog..... but didn't know where or how, so here is my journal. I am currently in my first poly relationship. I have always felt like I needed to have super close relationships with others, and if you have read my other posts literally been told and thought to myself I...
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    Poly Girl In NW Illinois

    Welcome to the board!!
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