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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    Amy is not my age lol. She is most likely in her mid 20s. I only see her in the gym sporadically and our interaction is limited to a curt nod or wave of acknowledgment. So we are not friends. I am depending on reddit and this forum for advice. I will leave Amy to Kaitlyn. Thanks for explicitly...
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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    I am surprised too. It was awkward as Kaitlyn knows that her sister asked me out and after a few months, I asked her sister out. But I am not sure what exactly they discussed about me and I am also afraid to ask, TBH.
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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    @Magdlyn Thanks for the wonderful response. Your journey is inspiring. I will just give it a try and see what happens. For all I know, she might find me a bore after a couple of dates.
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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    Texted her and we plan to meet for lunch next week. Thanks for the encouragement!
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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    I would be thrilled if I were to find some woman around my age and similar interests. I matched with quite a few and even dated/had sex with a couple, but it didn't work out, and I got repeatedly ghosted, while the list of un-responded-to chats became way too long for my comfort. She said that...
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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    I forgot to ask before but what's the campground rule?
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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    Thanks Evie, Kaitlyn made it clear that she is viewing any potential relationship with a long-term lens? She said that she doesn't like short flings. What if this becomes a long-term thing? That is my biggest worry. Or maybe I am over thinking it. It's been just one date.
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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    Thanks! I think we have very good chemistry and dare I say ( I will never mention it to anyone outside this forum) we are better match, at least on paper when compared to my wife. My wife doesn't like outdoors that much and she never partakes in any of my hobbies. This seems like a dream come...
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    Should I start seeing this new girl I met?

    I'm not sure if you're familiar with my background, but I'm a married man with a wife and two kids. You can follow more here https://polyamory.com/threads/steves-enm-journey.157798 I started my ENM journey a few months ago. I went on a couple of dates, both of which didn't go well. I tried...
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    Steve's ENM journey

    I am taking a break from dating. The usual apps are dry and I want to take a break before moving on to feeld.
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    Steve's ENM journey

    That bastard! What a shitty thing to do. This whole past week feels so strange. Now that I am looking back, there were some cracks. She never mentioned where she worked, while I gave her my business card on the first date. She never told me exactly where she lived and always gave vague...
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    Steve's ENM journey

    Thanks Evie, I know this sounds childish but I was falling in love. I was glued to my phone anticipating her texts. We had amazing chemistry and our texting was super playful and fun. She initiated lot of conversations. It felt like this was going somewhere. My son asked if everything was okay...
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    Steve's ENM journey

    I am completely vexed by dating and I just wanna give up. What was turning out to be an amazing week just turned out to be a complete waste of time and effort. Jess and I had an amazing week leading to our third date Yesterday. We texted incessantly and flirted nonstop. We met again on...
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    Steve's ENM journey

    i don't wanna jinx it and my son almost busted me. He asked me whom are you texting so much. I lied an told him that I am on reddit.
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    Steve's ENM journey

    Bouldering with my sons is always an amazing experience. I also don't feel too bad for getting them some fast food after a climbing session.
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    Steve's ENM journey

    I had an amazing first date with a stunning woman (Jess), and this took me back to the first time I met my wife. I am grinning like an idiot. Is it wrong that I am already planning a lot of things in the future (at least in my mind)? I am on cloud nine! We just had coffee and took a walk...
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    First date blues

    I texted her that I wanted to talk to her but she kind of got the hint already and she was cool with it. I was getting worried for absolutely no reason.
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    First date blues

    Thanks a lot, everyone, for your wishes. The night went much better than I had expected. As soon as I left the house, Emma texted me, telling me that there were condoms in my glove box. I had to drive for around 45 minutes to get to the date. I met J, and the date went okay. But for some...
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    First date blues

    They are 13 and 10 now. I think you are right. Emma seems to think that I am sabotaging my date by overthinking about small details.
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    First date blues

    As you know from my posting history, I finally have a date, and we are meeting tonight. I am equally excited and equally nervous. We are sending our kids to their grandparents' place for the night, as I usually spend time with them in the evening. I told my parents and kids that Emma and I are...
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