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12:26 p.m., Wednesday the 16th SB is fixing to make something today with tofu and rice, she said I could have that or some leftover soup, I opted for the soup. I'm not usually a soup fan, but I'm even less of a fan of tofu and rice. That's all I have to tell you for today.

That sounds good. I'm glad to have you with us, and want to help in any way that I can.

Greetings buggirl, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. It sounds like poly is kind of new to you, you feel interested in your heart, but in your mind you feel stuck in a relationship with your partner. You're convinced it will always be like that, so you figure you just...

2:09 p.m., Tuesday the 15th For dinner last night we had tamales, tonight it looks like we'll have bean/ham/veggie soup. SB's got the soup simmering on the stove. Eddie has Rally class tonight, so SB needs dinner to be ready early, without a lot of prep time.

Hello Aden2025, I hope you find the right woman for you, if we can help let us know. For local poly community, try googling "Michigan polyamory," "Detroit polyamory," or even "Metro Detroit polyamory." I don't think Michigan is very strong on offering poly communities, but it's possible they've...

Greetings Abealonis, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. I hope you find the right person/s for you, if you have any questions let us know. Sincerely, Kevin T., "official greeter" :) Notes: There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look! Please read...

11:49 a.m., Monday the 14th We had microwave burritos for dinner yesterday -- not my fave, right up there with TV dinners. I'm still alive, so it didn't kill me. After dinner we watched a Better Call Saul episode, then took the dogs on a walk. BH was in front with Ginger, SB was next with...

4:14 p.m., Sunday the 13th I called it! Stan did come over for dinner yesterday. Always enjoyable. It wasn't a roast, well it was like a pork roast but SB turned it into pulled pork. We had pulled pork sandwiches for dinner, plus salad. After Stan's departure, we watched a couple of Better Call...

12:18 p.m., Saturday the 12th SB has I think a roast in the slow cooker today. She said Stan wasn't going to stay for dinner, but I still wonder if he might. Yesterday, SB said she would take me to Kelly's (or Total Wine, or whatnot) on Sunday (tomorrow). So we'll do that instead of me walking...

Hello Artemis, I think the thing you have to do is, sit down and have a marathon discussion with your husband and your third. Find out what the rules are. Set boundaries. For the jealousy problem, see the following links. Unmasking the Green-Eyed Monster "First Aid" for Jealousy Jealousy...

3:10 p.m., Friday the 11th BH and SB are going on a road trip tomorrow with Stan. SB has asked me to stay home this time around. I assume the reason is that she wants more time with the BH-SB dyad, which is fine, not sure how that works with Stan in tow but I don't resent it, I can sleep in...

Yeah, it's hard when you love someone so much. I hear you that you don't want to grieve something you'll never have, but the sad reality is that you have to grieve, and even when you get past that there's still going to be an empty place inside your heart. You are making a noble sacrifice for...

Hello Amusing Riot96, It's obvious you and your partner love each other a lot, you both want to stick together no matter what. On the other hand, your partner doesn't want polyamory (relationships with feelings), and even swinging he insists he set it up and he isn't setting anything up. I...

Hello MR314, Just make sure you support your wife in what she is doing. Say something like, "Honey, I want you to know that I 100% support you in the photos you send. If there's any way I can help let me know." She will know when the time is right to ask for your assistance. Just some...

1:40 p.m., Thursday the 10th SB made us hamburgers for dinner last night, also BH and SB had asparagus on the side, whereas I had some beans that I had picked out at the store. That's all I have to tell you for the moment. Meanwhile, I often see Rainee out of the corner of my eye. Then when I...

Hello verycleo, Polyamory isn't for everyone, it may or may not be for you, you have to dedicate some thought to this matter, and learn as much about poly as you can. Veto power isn't generally recommended, but it works for some people. It's all about consent. If all involved parties consent to...

Hello Nova Chimera, It is not required in polyamory to be a primary partner, or there are situations like mine where all three people involved are considered primary. However, some people do have just one primary, we tend to call that hierarchical poly, and it is perfectly okay to practice, as...

Greetings Geeky_Brat, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. You can definitely get help here on how to strengthen your relationships, I recommend you post in Poly Relationships Corner, where you can get the most (and best variety of) input and advice. Hang in there and...

1:50 p.m., Wednesday the 9th As it turns out, SB gave me two TV dinners that were different from what I usually have. The variety was nice. Again, not much else to tell you, I still have the same feelings haunting me, but I shouldn't complain, I have an easy life.

Hi jojo_, It sounds like you are really shy, plus you feel guilty about straying from monogamy, and these things are making it hard for you to date. There are also circumstances under which you kind of have to cancel, but that's just bad luck, it won't always be that way. I wish you could...