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Wow. I just went to read through our various blogs, and - WOW. JUST WOW. All the insight and emotion COMPLETELY VANISHED upon realizing that in the time we weren't posting, the mods came in here and deleted all trace of other members (INCLUDING THEIR OWN) sickening behaviour - and left all of...

Never, in the history of relationships, has this or will this ever be a reasonable or effective way to communicate in a relationship. I might go so far as to say that people posting that "I'm usually good at ____" are enablers, lol. In my relationships - at least since I grew a brain about...

Sounds like a normal situation of a poly person learning to deal with reality to me. Many of us have been through what you're in the middle of and worse, some of us many times over. Relationships are hard. Poly ones are harder. Nothing new there! +1 to those saying, "Talk to your partners, and...

Have you ever fell for someone - maybe a crush, but lets limit it to a longer-lasting, more "meaningful" kind of feeling - while in a committed relationship - that in no way lessened or detracted for your feelings toward your current SO? If so, that's being poly. Whether you act on it or not...

Other than being on the thin side, neither my mother nor any of my relations fits my "type" very well, lol.

RUN AWAY, AND FAST. I can't begin to list the reasons. They're self explanatory anyway. And give your SO a smack upside the head for me for even considering her. BTW - this is coming from a guy who has made similar mistakes with similarly - though never QUITE so bad - dysfunctional women...

I was actually on the opposite side of this when evrythig went south with Adrian. ALL my friends - EVERY SINGLE ONE - took my (or "our, including Violet and Lana" as they saw it) side, and weren't very nice about it. This really upset me - I know Adrian was hurting too, and didn't need the...

We have had similar experiences with couples, to the point where we kinda just don't bother anymore. Not that we're not open to the idea, it's just that so many of them are... Well, weird or insecure or REALLY open swinger types or or or... The two that we still associate with still have...

That is BY FAR the most common response I get from people who skip the judging and try to grasp it, lol.

Take a multi-partner, love-based poly relationship, in which everyone involved is extremely sexual and open-minded, who are willing to "play" in a "swinger"-type way, but who keep that separate from the "poly" side of things... It makes perfect sense to US, not so much to most others. 🤷

It doesn't help that long before the poly thing came around, I was known for my awesome Fedora collection, to the point where some people don't recognize me without one. Throw in the fact that with my injury I frequently walk with a cane... Arguably the cutest/funniest moment in our...

Maybe below the cockles... Maybe in the sub-cockle area... Maybe in the kidneys... Maybe in the liver... Maybe EVEN in the colon... We don't know. Sorry, had to. :p

And those that are open and honest on both points get called liars by both sides. :rolleyes:

This. And this. And this.

A lot of it has to do with the age gap (I'm 13 years older then Violet and Lana, 10 years older than Adrian) and the fact that they're all insanely hot and their profession. They're all 3 strippers, which somehow makes it different than if they had "regular" jobs and adds to the pimp thing. If...

Grrr - Violet gets that al the time; I didn't address that side of it before. She simply MUST be horribly insecure and have all kinds of issues to resort to letting her man have other women just to keep him around! That really grinds my gears.

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This was an issue in our house briefly because Adrian is LOUD. Her "keeping it down" is most peoples loud, and hr loud is-- well, most of the neighborhood knows when she's getting some. lol But now it's the other way. The other two don't give a rats tail when I'm with Adrian. Violet even...

When you figure it out, let me know. :rolleyes:

Cohabitation came naturally with Lana. She already lived with us. The only thing that changed is she sometimes now sleeps in our bed with us, or one of us sleeps with her, on occasion. And of course, she is now sexually involved with both of us, which she wasn't as a roommate. We moved way too...