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Haven't been on in awhile. Did I miss the opportunity?

We are trying to organize some meet ups in the Ark la tex area or south arkansas. Let us know if any of you are interested.

Hi there yknot. Where in Arkansas. We are in south central and always looking for new poly people to talk with. We are trying to coordinate a meet up group in the ark la tex area right now. It is on fet life right now. idk if you have a presence there but love to chat.

Go slowly and cautiously. There are many stumbling blocks in from of you but if you three will communicate, communicate and communicate some more it can work. We are in year three working for a fourth, it has taken us that long to get a lot of kinks worked out. We started as a triad, have all...

Good for you. I completely understand your desire to come out, and your desire to have one big happy poly family. we live that way in secret most of the time but we are a triad and we and all our kids spend a lot of time together. Im glad the process is working for you, I have come out to my...

Having had some experience in this my advice s slow down, slow down, slow the f down. If the marital problems are hers and have nothing to do with the two of you try and back off as far as possible. Be a friend until she is sure that divorce is what she wants. If it is the relationship that the...

My suggestion as a lawyer is for you to hire a lawyer who has familiarity or at least curiosity about poly. Then i would suggest hiring an expert witness on child psychology who is willing to learn about Polyamory. I understand that there are studies out there that prove children in poly...

The close mindedness I was referring to is the lack of an open discussion on the subject. The lack of an open mind and inability to discuss alternative views when raised is a clear distinction that I have noticed about the two groups. I tend to find more intellectual stimulation in any...

I posed a similar question to a swingers forum one time. Mainly due to the lack of poly people in our area and to determine if there were poly friendly swingers who might be interested in dating. The first response from most was no poly emotional type connections, in fact all the men who...

The girls are the children. BI won't really express what she wants nor act on those desires when she tells me. That has been a huge problem with the relationship between the two often. H says she doesn't want to be around the drama BI brings. BI won't admit to the issues which bring the drama...

H did freely grant me time with BI it just doesn't work well for me. Seeing her every Monday is just not working for me. After two years of everyday almost the three of us together, traveling, cooking and hanging out almost daily to a once a week separate relationship caused me to feel...

I am the man in the middle of this story. There is so much more to the story. The relationship between the two women never developed like they both said they wanted it to. I encouraged the two of them to go away together develop it. Only once did they take me up on it. No open affection between...

Im going to wait on passing judgment, at least they are willing to explore bi men and their presence in the world.

I do the same thing, wedding ring on left, mans Celtic infinity circles on rt, H gave me both but they symbolize our triad, or the recently ended one. I gave both H and our girlfriend, Brown Iris, matching tri tone tripple intertwined hearts and twisted knots of infinity they wear/wore on rt...

I'm not saying they are or declared they were but if they had it would be not as big a deal as its being made out to be. If he were single or single and gay no one would care what and who he texted, so of he came out and said we are in an open marriage or we are poly it would be still a story...

What do you think would happen if Anthony Weiner came out as Poly and his wife stated she supported him and she were too. I think the whole thing blows over rather quickly an he moves on with his campaign. I do know that the poly lifestyle would benefit from it becoming mainstream news. But I...

Thanks for the advice. the party is at my dads house, my youngest sister is the same age as my son, so its a joint thing. I was really worried about hurt feelings of K. We have talked and to avoid drama with H's mom, who wont return H's calls on mothers day nor her recent texts, K has decide...

We have been Poly for a year with our third. She is a part of our life almost everyday. While we have had bumps and bruises this is the first major hurdle in dealing with social situations. First let me tell you that out of the three I am the only one who has family in this town, H's parrents...

It's a great weekend in our triad. K and H and I have cleared a year together with some ups and downs but really finding ourselves now. H and K and I had a wonderful night last, now they have gone out of town for the night and they are having a great time. I am at home with the kids and having a...

Longest lasting triad We just reached a one year milestone in our triad. While there have some rough patches I consider this a milestone. It made me wonder who has the longest lasting continual triad relationship on this fourm? Not that its good or bad just curious.