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i know i was exaggerating a-bit but it just magnify my problems and i had to admit my mistakes like asking my wife to have an open marriage when she just give birth to our second child that is just pretty pathetic. i guess i rushed a-bit on this issue by being proactive (may be because i had...

you are right i think i should drop it for a while (i haven't told my wife after i read Anneintherain comments a few hours back) since then i started to know that my timing and my proactive behavior on this approach might actually make my wife insulted or worse (why i didn't think of that)...

thanks for your point of view really makes me re-think on what my wife really want? p.s first visitor massage btw congrats

if she say no thanks then i will stay monogamous and just scrap the whole idea, as i strongly stressed that i do it for my wife (on the basis of my assumption of what my wife wants and misses) if she say no then no we will just simply forget it and get on with our lives:D

thanks for enlighten me for this one yeah i must admit that it sounds like i m broaching the idea thanks for telling me right now because i think you are right about me, i might be a-bit aggressive about thinking of this idea too early. And yes she hasn't broached the idea for a while and also...

yeah my reasoning is pretty weird eh? yeah i had NO interest in having other relationships if my wife starts first (you should read the previous post) since i want to focus on controlling my jealousy. Also if i had interest in having relationships before i start to ask about open marriage then...

Well thanks for giving me some good assumptions if i ever want to ask but the truth is that i don't know whether she wants this kind of freedom in the first place "Is she allowed to have emotional intimacy with others as well as physical?" yes sometimes a person can love more than a person and...

well you need to set clear rules between you and your partner and also try to talk to him saying that you don't have time with him just talk talk talk i know its really bad advice but still..........:p thats how my relationship works with my wife;)

i think he is cheating on you i mean poly means to be honest communication if not full disclosure of his whereabouts. his desires may be real but i mean you should have a chat with him first. For me it seems it is a red flag for me since he is using poly as an excuse to date other girls...

True Thanks for replying! And yes my reasoning is solid. And also yes i m planning to tell her the whole thing tonight. The thing is that i don't really want to force her to have this kind of style, i want her to decide by herself. Its like giving her a key out of the cage and she can...

Ok i m quite interested to open marriage but before you answer the title of the topic let me tell you my story.... I had known my wife for 8 years, dating for 3 and married for 4. When i first met her, she was quite a wild girl (by my standards) herself and had lots and lots of causal sex...