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Actually, i'll admit, upon learning that i only have 12 hours to edit my posts, i'll stop posting my blog on here. Guess i'm used to forums that at least understand that stalkers happen. i've had an ex"friend" find me on a parenting forum and try to have me fired due to the fact that what i...

wow that's seriously pathetic. what redpepper has stated is the way *most* forums work, especially those offering information or advice to the outside world as well. if you really want all your posts deleted, go back in your subscriptions and manually delete them all yourself. or is the...

:D the baby is looking at me funny cause i'm laughing so hard at this <3

Haha, quick reply! I'm German speaking...so German lyrics are SOOO much prettier, totally agree! I love both those songs <3 You just totally made my day *sob* :D German can be super sexy and romantic! Provided I can't hear it spoken in my parents accent :P

I think you and your wife need to sit down and discuss whether poly is something you're interested in (even if it doesn't happen with this couple?) and then you and TM need to sit down and clarify your feelings. because the above to me doesn't scream 'lets have poly relationships'. it screams...

Finally called a locum out tonight. I'd been getting better, i thought uti was gone - but it came back, and i just couldn't deal anymore. Enjoying my countries health care. Finally accepted i need antibiotics (this might be a good place to mention that, while i don't use homeopathics etc - i do...

I am part of the facebook group for my state's poly group. i was a bit wary joining because while i'm out to a lot of people - i don't want to risk my professional life. However its a closed/private group - nothing shows up on my wall so that's nice. and i'm mainly in it for the knowledge of...

I'm in a triad (and I have a thread somewhere on the forum). We call ourselves a triad, rather than polygynus because there's no plan for marriage (and if there was, would be just as much between us girls as between e male and the two females), but we're also not a fidelitous group. [i will...

Fascinating topic! I have identified as Bi since i was around 5 or 6 (very open parents - although i assume i just overheard the word and went 'yeah, thats what i am', rather than having them sit down and explain it to me), and have only encountered the term pan recently. I am kind-of...

I typed up a whingey post yesterday. but luckily just previewed, not saved/posted it. Its been a hard weekend. I'm under a lot of stress for uni, M had some kind of tummy bug (that we keep calling man flu behind his back :p ), H had a really weird period which was very reminiscent of the...

its lovely to meet you. :-)

They're not friendly at all. We haven't gotten official legal advice yet, but from what I can ascertain, we won't lose custody. Our courts are very into 'what's best for the child', which would means psych watching our interactions with master 7, and affidavits etc. And we would look better to...

Well we've 'officially' come out as boyfriend/girlfriend to master 7, who is a very perceptive little boy. He came home from his dads custody weekend today, and while outside with just H (his mum) he made some fly-by comment about "when you're not around...M thinks that plig is his...

Lol, we have very similar tastes in house decor, so we SHARE most of it - its more the actual regular household. Not yet. And yes i think it probably does. I was speculating that it might change slightly when i have a baby. But i'm not sure. I think she'll baby me while i'm pregnant :p I...

:D Yeah i was feeling a little bad for them. They've both decided the CBF quitting right now. so i just want to kick them both in the shin for being grumpy poo's for the last week, and now smelling/tasting like ashtrays again. Awful what we'll put up with for love :mad: i always said i would...

hehe, nah i'm planning to go back to europe in a couple years. i'm originally from there, even if i'm a total oz girl now. But it'll mostly be to visit family. unless i take a child, in which case i might try to travel a little bit to expand her horizons. hehe, i shall be very flattered <3 glad...

For those of you with children, how do you balance the poly withthe parenting? Are all members of the relationship (if it's a triad/quad/v) involved in parenting and childraising? Or just those who biologically created the children? I love hearing how other people organize their homes :-) and...

Firstly I would urge you to reread gala girls post because I think she has summed up my reaction to your story perfectly For myself, I am the newest member in our triad however we have a long history. And we haves all children involved, which changes the dynamics hugely. For me,yes I need to...

I'm actually not genuinely disputing anything you have said. the fact that they're disposible makes it a weird situation. Just had to point out...sex doesn't have to be the pinacle of it being a poly relationship. My fDP and i don't have sex, we're still in a [poly]relationship. :)

Still not entirely decided on nicknames. And M thinks i'm insane for wanting to give him a nickname (that alone is reason to start referring to him as the tramp :mad: :p let alone the fact that he wears sweat-pants most days *shudder* i love him, but...he looks SO sexy in slightly classier...