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I have no advice about canadian law, but this is a huge fear of mine. <3 major hugs and i hope someone else has more of a clue.

:D hehe, that's awesome i'm tempted to go with rahl for M, but i'm still thinking for H. totally not trying to stick with the initials currently being used. :p want things that are a bit 'meaningful' to us IRL :rolleyes: apparently this is what happens when i procrastinate with uni. i start...

Ok, not really a relationship thing I'm sick of referring to my two as H and M. :mad: So i'm going back and editing my posts in a bit to give them cutesy nicknames. Once i figure out what to call them. :rolleyes: As an aside, we spent several lovely days at the mil's down by the beach, and i...

Yes i think he's poly. But i can understand why a lot of people who live more 'normal' (aka less plastic :p) poly lives would want to distance themselves from him. Admittedly, i hadn't really thought of him when i thought of poly, because to me, poly is more about love than sex - and his set up...

Thankyou! It's fascinating to see what/how other people mitigate risks :-)

I found that i would look in the mirror, and rather than focusing on all the things i would change if i could, i would tell myself 'your hair is GORGEOUS, look how it makes everything light up'. And slowly my own list of things iliked i about myself grew. Admittedly its been a long uphill...

That sounds amazing! can i request a peek at it too? :o

Nice reminder that talking to my partners works a whole lot better than a computer screen. Poor M was convinced i was p!ssed with him [he got drunk last night, and spent most of today completely hungover - and he and a friend had left for a few hours right while we were cleaning the house...so...

I'm struggling a little bit with a request M made of me recently. pretty much his only request for me, was that i try and 'play nice' with his mother and sister. And i really want to. His sister and i have always gotten on ok. I mean, she thinks i'm boring (lol, see my previous post - i'm...

Well i went to our local poly meet last week. Which was amazing. Really fun. I told mum yesterday on the phone about it and she freaked out a bit. me being poly doesn't phase her - but me attending a group that some men might be using to cheat on their wives? horrifying. :rolleyes: [rolling my...

If I thought it was at all financially feasible I would. But I think going to Both is going to be stupid enough, let alone both with a second person :-( since I won't start earning money till next year. :( Glad you are enjoying my journey :D

I am the type of person who often has a lot of excessive fears, and an extraordinary ability to over think anything in any given situation. My uni-graduation is fast approaching, which is exciting (and petrifying - after this comes 'the real world'), and we have two organised events to...

I call myself a unicorn because it has been my FDP's term of endearment for me since long before we discovered the poly community. I have to admit, learning the more negative terms associated with it (naive, pet, being 'hunted,' etc.), makes me really dislike it. I still let her call me that...

Bump, since I'm in a different time zone lol

Has anyone found that there is a hierarchy of some description within their triad? fDP pointed out to me is morning that she has a tendacy to call me 'darling girl', and was asking whether I felt like she was trying to assert herself as 'lead female' because she worries that she's infantilising...

So we've just been cruising along the last few days. Had a bit of a hiccup where 'FIL' (H's dad - i've been calling him that for a year or more) was acting strangely a few days ago, and had insisted that M and i not be at all affectionate infront of him :rolleyes: But in the end he accepted the...

I just told people recently, very matter-of-factly. Everyone important in my life is aware (immediate family and most friends), and the only reason there was an initial sense of weirdness was because of who my partners are, not that there are two of them. But I'm in a triad, so it's an everyday...

It's bizarre to think that this has only been a real relationship for a month. I think the fact that our relationships were already so strong before we started being sexual has truly helped. I'm sure I've still got a lot of the NRE, but at the same time, we act like an old married family LOL M...

I've been at my mums for the last two nights due to work commitments, and urgh. i did not enjoy being away from my people. add to that, the fact that yesterday was quite a trying day emotionally (first at work) and difficulties with uni work and something in my biological family that's rattled...

yes he is! never would have believed it. i think before, it was her second child, his first - so he was kind of left out of the parenting because she was very 'been there done that', and didn't know how to integrate him - and he was happy to keep being a child. and when she needed him to step up...