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  1. DestinyWaits

    A little help please (triad)

    In all honesty, I understand what you both have said. Thankfully, my husband knew who Heinlein was, because I didn't, and so now I will have to read some of those books myself... as if my library weren't big enough already! hehe I do plan on talking to her again about it all. Maybe since we...
  2. DestinyWaits

    Hello to all...

    thank you!!
  3. DestinyWaits

    A little help please (triad)

    I was wondering if anyone else had ever had this experience and if so how you handled it. In our relationship with our last partner, a woman my husband and I loved very dearly, we were always trying to put things on an equal level with everyone. We wanted her to feel that she was an equal part...
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    Hello to all...

    Nice to meet you too Mono!
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    Looking for advice (triads, communication)

    On this I can offer both advice and insight. You see, I've been there done that. As I stated in my introduction, I am bisexual and my husband is very understanding. When I first came to realize I was bi, my husband told me I could have a gf, but that she had to be someone that he could love as...
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    I sent you a friend request because I have read some of the posts you put up and have found you...

    I sent you a friend request because I have read some of the posts you put up and have found you to be quite the insightful person. I would love to visit with you and hear some of the wisdom you impart on this site...without knowledge there is desolation
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    hello there, I'm glad to meet someone who is in the same shoes I am in. We are lucky to have...

    hello there, I'm glad to meet someone who is in the same shoes I am in. We are lucky to have the men we do and I would love to chat with you and maybe exchange whosie whatsits about the day to day challenges we face being as we are. feel free to come visit anytime and I do answer all messages...
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    Hello to all...

    Yes XYZ we are very lucky!! I am glad to meet you both and who knows, maybe we will learn a thing or two about the world and ourselves along the way here!!
  9. DestinyWaits

    definition of Poly?

    I will say that my defintion of poly, or as I explained it to my 15yr old when he asked me, is being in a relationship with more than one person and it being an exclusive relationship, to me anything else is swinging but that is just my definition, yours may be different. When my husband and I...
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    Long Term Poly Relationship Goals?

    What we desire in our relationship is a triad. For a time we had a live-in triad and it worked out wonderfully until the other woman decided she needed the white picket fence and wanted to try for a "normal" relationship, we are all still friends. We have since then had one other triad and...
  11. DestinyWaits

    How "out" are you?

    In all honesty I have never had an issue with who do I tell and who do I not, my mother raised my sister and I to never be ashamed of who we are and to stand behind our decisions even if it turns out to be the wrong one. Since it is another woman that we have in our lives I do often get the...
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    when things go awry

    I woulld have to say that the only thing to do is what I have had to do in the past when things didn't go as I thought they would or should in a relationship such as this...pick yourself up, go shopping (even for an ice cream cone) and just sit there and watch the world around you, you will soon...
  13. DestinyWaits

    Hello to all...

    I have been around the site first off to check things out and second to see whats what. I am new here and have been wanting to find a place to be able to go and have others of a like mind to visit with, talk to, and either give advice to or get advice from since let's face it, the polylifestyle...
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    Rings

    Hey there and Congratulations!!! When my husband and I found a woman we wanted to include into our family and decided to ask her to join us as a sister wife we did the ring search as well. We couldn't decide on one simple design so after a search at different jewelry stores and almost giving...
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    Hi. Let me introduce myself

    I read your post and wanted to let you know, I have 2 children who are normal, well rounded, teenage boys. Both live normal, active, teenage lives and the fact that I live a poly lifestyle has not effected them adversely in any way, as a matter of fact they have grown to love one or two of my...
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