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If I had to do it all over again, I still can't tell you how I would have done it. I've tried the face to face (before I knew what 'polyamory' was), and I had no clue how to describe something I thought was just me being the oddball once again. (I fall far from "the norm" on some things.)...

dingedheart, yes, that transcript is fairly accurate. Again, wrong approach? Yeah, maybe. But that's how it was done. I can't take it back. It is what it is and we grow from there. Newguy, didn't we kinda get engaged via text? LOL But anyway. I can't take it back, no matter how wrong it was...

A. That's not what I was doing. B. Yes, I have a ring. C. Not a means to an end. It was an opening to a difficult conversation. Handled wrong? Yeah. Straightened out later? Yeah, kinda.

WORDS!!! kesi357 if you want to play! -Kat

Awww, thanks! Glad it was insightful. :)

No problem!

So true!

RedPepper, It came from the thread, "A question for the mono men" http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=19969 -Kat

HE LOVES ME!!!! Love u too, NG <3 ;)

Thanks for your insight, Annabel! We're both processing. This has been and will continue to be a great learning process for us. I am pleased to have shared this part of myself with him, and for him to have attempted to understand me and vice versa. And with this open dialogue we have, if my...

Love u, babe! ;)

Yes, that's correct.

Goin' to the chapel and we're Gonna get married Gee, I really love you and we're Gonna get married Goin' to the chapel of love

Dear NewGuy, I won't leave u in 3 or 5 or 10 years because u don't want me to have a boyfriend. I love u very much! Love, KAT

So, you both are cheating on your husband and wife, but want to add additional lovers into your relationship with eachother? And your boyfriend is not around much, so you want a companion on the side.. as does your boyfriend? Sounds a little swinger'ish to me. Someone that's a friend and...

Do you ever talk to the wife directly, or is he the liason? Can the three of you meet together and discuss this, or can you develop a closer relationship with her so she can feel less threatened by you?

You did sound a little Big Bang Theory'ish.. lol

Well, from what Phy's men were saying, it goes towards the two of them being told and recognizing that they both bring something new to the table. My fiance can't yet look at the poly lifestyle beyond the sex (swinging). Therefore, he and another man are bringing the exact same thing to the...

Phy, VERY much impressed!!! And some great insight to work with. My fiance is such an Alpha male, so I'm sure it'll be that much more difficult. AnnabelMore, yes, I think Sward and Lin are adorable, as well. That was a great read! I'm glad your situation worked itself out. Also, I understand...

:) Your insight is most appreciated, of course! I do fear, however, that this thread will turn into a discussion on culture and our use of possessive words, etc. and my original thought will be lost in the discussion. No offense though. Again, I appreciate you both. All insight is good...