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    Text Message: "I'm Poly..." WTF?!?!?!

    If I had to do it all over again, I still can't tell you how I would have done it. I've tried the face to face (before I knew what 'polyamory' was), and I had no clue how to describe something I thought was just me being the oddball once again. (I fall far from "the norm" on some things.)...
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    Text Message: "I'm Poly..." WTF?!?!?!

    dingedheart, yes, that transcript is fairly accurate. Again, wrong approach? Yeah, maybe. But that's how it was done. I can't take it back. It is what it is and we grow from there. Newguy, didn't we kinda get engaged via text? LOL But anyway. I can't take it back, no matter how wrong it was...
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    Text Message: "I'm Poly..." WTF?!?!?!

    A. That's not what I was doing. B. Yes, I have a ring. C. Not a means to an end. It was an opening to a difficult conversation. Handled wrong? Yeah. Straightened out later? Yeah, kinda.
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    *Cole's Intro*

    WORDS!!! kesi357 if you want to play! -Kat
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    It's like being in the closet..

    Awww, thanks! Glad it was insightful. :)
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    What if I can never change?

    No problem!
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    What if I can never change?

    RedPepper, It came from the thread, "A question for the mono men" http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=19969 -Kat
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    A question for the mono men

    HE LOVES ME!!!! Love u too, NG <3 ;)
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    What if I can never change?

    Thanks for your insight, Annabel! We're both processing. This has been and will continue to be a great learning process for us. I am pleased to have shared this part of myself with him, and for him to have attempted to understand me and vice versa. And with this open dialogue we have, if my...
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    What if I can never change?

    Love u, babe! ;)
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    What if I can never change?

    Yes, that's correct.
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    What if I can never change?

    Goin' to the chapel and we're Gonna get married Gee, I really love you and we're Gonna get married Goin' to the chapel of love
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    What if I can never change?

    Dear NewGuy, I won't leave u in 3 or 5 or 10 years because u don't want me to have a boyfriend. I love u very much! Love, KAT
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    Not sure if I belong here

    So, you both are cheating on your husband and wife, but want to add additional lovers into your relationship with eachother? And your boyfriend is not around much, so you want a companion on the side.. as does your boyfriend? Sounds a little swinger'ish to me. Someone that's a friend and...
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    Sexual dysfunction in a new relationship (warning, sexual content here)

    Do you ever talk to the wife directly, or is he the liason? Can the three of you meet together and discuss this, or can you develop a closer relationship with her so she can feel less threatened by you?
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    Is there a "how to" guide? monogamous to poly/mono

    You did sound a little Big Bang Theory'ish.. lol
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    A question for the mono men

    Well, from what Phy's men were saying, it goes towards the two of them being told and recognizing that they both bring something new to the table. My fiance can't yet look at the poly lifestyle beyond the sex (swinging). Therefore, he and another man are bringing the exact same thing to the...
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    A question for the mono men

    Phy, VERY much impressed!!! And some great insight to work with. My fiance is such an Alpha male, so I'm sure it'll be that much more difficult. AnnabelMore, yes, I think Sward and Lin are adorable, as well. That was a great read! I'm glad your situation worked itself out. Also, I understand...
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    A question for the mono men

    :) Your insight is most appreciated, of course! I do fear, however, that this thread will turn into a discussion on culture and our use of possessive words, etc. and my original thought will be lost in the discussion. No offense though. Again, I appreciate you both. All insight is good...
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