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Ouch. I deserve that. Yes, I can be an @ss - I'm the first to admit it. I'm human, and I'm living, learning and making mistakes. Having the discussion was a mistake, despite being driven by what I thought were good reasons (over communicating, all that). Yes, I was exceptionally tired, and yes...

I suppose that one approach may be to try telling her that, ultimately, love isn't a competition. That you and Pixie aren't like seats in a movie theater - love, in any of it's forms, isn't something quantifiable in best/worst terms. Having a best implies a worst, and that isn't something that...

Had an interesting discussion with Lost today. We were talking about what I'm attracted to, and it occurred to me that, while I may be poly, or polyfi, or somewhere in that spectrum, I'm either not overly confident with it, or I'm just likely to have a pretty limited pool of potential...

So.. sound advice, basically. My main concern is really a matter of getting my questions answered without coming across as needy or insecure. I find insecurity to be neither healthy nor attractive. I don't feel insecure. In large part, I want the clarity because I know it helps Lost. For...

On Reflection... Either way, this is for the best. If it turns out that B is not actually interested in letting the relationship develop, this will get that out in the open. And if she is, then this sets a little framework. One of the biggest challenges I've had in this developing situation...

Ooops.. I'm horrible at updating this.. I think I much prefer to simply talk. When I'm writing here, I tend to make these very long winded explanations, and way more detail than is probably helpful. That said ... Communication is ongoing. Speaking of communication, I finally took another...

Talking.... Yes. The one thing I'm completely clear on is that communication is paramount. Open, honest, clear communication. That much is definitely in our favor. We aren't always great at talking, but we both keep trying, and we both keep trying to get better at it.

So, not long ago, my wife (justlost, here) posted her perspective on our story. She requested to me that I, in turn, post my side of the story, as it were. Here, I'll try to do that. Forgive me if I'm a little rambling while I try to do this - it tends to take me a little while to form full...

I'm khas, husband of justlost, and newly out as poly. I encouraged her to post, and as part of that, agreed to post my part of the story. I've actually been reading here for some time, have seen that this board is full of great, accepting, and helpful people. We're in the very early phases of...