Search results

Welcome and good luck with the communication around this new love of yours with your husband. I look forward to hearing how it all goes. I am beginning to realize that I have often only started truly loving another human being when I fell out of love with her. :-) Immaterial

welcome! I teach high school and have spoken with several students who identify as poly, both male and female. I am amazed at the new perspectives on relationship that many of my high school students have that have taken me a lifetime to wake up to. I look forward to hearing more about your...

Thanks. It's so very liberating to find even a few people to have these sorts of conversations with. I have been way underground for a long time. I am now in that pink cloud, "I am poly, hear me roar," kind of space. Mono, I appreciate your live and let live perspective. I also see the wisdom...

I had an interesting encounter with a powerfully energetic, mystically-inclined woman last night, who is way into Human Design, which I hadn't heard of before. (http://www.humandesign.com/). It amazes me how many systems of esoteric knowledge/insight/symbolism have been developed by humans. This...

Thanks! I have nothing to lose by being honest. I figure the more I just keep spilling, the more the universe will direct me on the way home. I can take as many side streets as I like, but I'm still going to have to come clean sometime. So why not now? I spent most of today so far helping my...

I figured the title might get some attention. That's what it's all about. Me. haha. Actually, I hope my tale might be useful to some people out there. I have had about 4 decades of often painful and consistently confused sexual and relationship history to try to get next to precisely WTF makes...

wow, what an experience it is to read your blog from beginning to end! Just fantastic. I look forward to hearing more. Inspiring and revelatory! Immaterial

Just want to say how powerful reading this whole thread has been for me. Thanks Matilda for sharing so much of such a difficult process with this forum. It's amazing to read through the thread from the very beginning to your last post. Such painful transformation! May you be liberated and loved...

This is a lovely story! How fine to hear about a man who can transition to compersion so (relatively) easily and who obviously loves you. Congrats! Immaterial

Nice to meet you Claire, and thnaks for the background research you did on the term polyamory in a different thread. Happy birthday! Immaterial

I am a total noob, so take whatever I say with a grain of salt, but I think there is a lot of direct, open and honest communication that would have to happen here for it to be an ethical arrangement. If you want an open marriage and you want to openly love both your husband and your lover, in my...

Thanks!

Hi Redpepper- I'd like to be FB friends. If that's not too forward of me, having just joined the forum today. Thanks, Peter

Hi- I am new at living as a polyamorist out of the closet, so to speak, living with the conscious choice to be poly. I have tried for many years to fit into the cultural mode of the exclusive dyad and it has just been a big catastrophe, several times over. haha. There is great relief in...