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Hello! I was active here in the spring of 2010 for a blip-- Looking back over my posts I'm totally mortified at what a know-it-all self-serious patronizing earnest self-absorbed persona I had in most of my posts. haha. Lots of humbling experiences since then. Anyway, I'm glad the forum is...

Mono asked in a separate thread what I mean when I say "unconditional love." I am continuously learning more about this liberating truth for myself, so forgive me if my thoughts here don't make much sense. I keep thinking of it as BIG LOVE. It's this great ocean of love that doesn't have any...

I may have missed a thread or two addressing this; if so, pardon me. I have no intention of opening up a big can of worms. (Do worms even come in cans?) I got into a terrible flame war once several years ago with a guy who ran a swingers' club. I had never really looked into it before this...

Has Anyone Read "Sex at Dawn"? And if so, any opinions? I'm intrigued by the central thesis. From the promo materials for the book: "...Human beings evolved in egalitarian groups that shared food, child care, and, often, sexual partners. Weaving together convergent, frequently overlooked...

I have been interested in judgment and diagnosis over the past several years, especially as regards sexual behavior, but also relationship life. I started to hijack one of the blogs here and figured I'd just continue this conversation in a separate thread. I'm particularly interested in...

I figured the title might get some attention. That's what it's all about. Me. haha. Actually, I hope my tale might be useful to some people out there. I have had about 4 decades of often painful and consistently confused sexual and relationship history to try to get next to precisely WTF makes...

Hi- I am new at living as a polyamorist out of the closet, so to speak, living with the conscious choice to be poly. I have tried for many years to fit into the cultural mode of the exclusive dyad and it has just been a big catastrophe, several times over. haha. There is great relief in...