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Knowing I'm going to get a lot of answers like "get a hobby" "hang out with friends" etc... I'm still going to ask the question. When your live-in partner is staying the night at his other partner's house, how do you cope? Background: My husband died just over 2 years ago. Even when my...

How does one manage time when there's very little of it? He needs time with her. I need time with him. She and I need time together. AND we need time with all three of us. She's very much a person who likes her alone time. He's a person who needs his alone time. We have 5 kids at home...

Azorkane and I had a discussion the other day about BDSM activities... vs sex. In his mind - they are on the same playing field. In mine - they aren't. There are certain things I'll allow just about anyone do to my body (flogging, scratching) But stuff that's more "sacred" - I don't offer...

I'm going to start by saying right off the bat that this is a *bad week* emotionally for me. Really bad. Probably should have taken Thursday off bad. However. Azorkane has had a waning libido over the last 6 months or so. He attributed it to stress. There was a LOT of stress in our...

I like to blog. I like to blog a lot. So this will be a good place for me to document my 2nd chapter in life. I've been here before. My husband and I were married for 11 years when we decided that we'd open our hearts to others. He found someone - they fell in love and had a very brief...

I'm azorkanesbrat. Living in northern BC, in a long term committed relationship. The expectation (on both sides) is that we will get married in the relatively near future. We have (together) 7 kids - 5 still living at home. I am the primary caregiver for them all mostly due to my...

I'm not new to poly. I'm not new to these forums, but I have changed my account (if there's a way to do so on my other account - please let me know - but I kinda want that to be historical record of that part of my life) At any rate. New partner. New partner has another partner (a year into...