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Hello, In could write a long story about my life but in essence, I am in a LTR with my GF and we are both open to some degree. I have been in the kink, alternative and mainstream scenes. Regardless of how the subject is being approached (without any advances), I am yet to find a decent woman...

(revised sorry!) 3 years now, going nowhere, frustrated..dead end Hello, 3 years now since I have tried to change my 8 years relationship. I am here today, completely confused and lost about if poly is even possible. My main interest in poly is diversifying my sexual experience. Some said...

Hello, need some help here please...I am very depressed. I am 37 yo, in a LTR and my SO is willing to accept some openeness in my relationship as long as there is friendship and knowledge of the situation. Now, while I just can't go and pick up girls randomly for dates, it was suggested that I...

Hello, simple question...hard answer? I usually have no problems whatsoever picking up girls when I am single. I have actually studied the question quite in depth and have always had great results...but now I am in a relationship. There is this girl I am very interested in...she works in a...

I'm in big trouble, please help Big fight at home today trying to express my views on polyamory with my SO of 6 years. She is really freaked out and got very scary angry. We've talked about it in the past, but I wanted to be very clear this time, since previously it was just beating around the...

Hello, just slowly adding some flexibility and permissiveness in our couple. Nothing major but we have had some experiences here and there and I am trying to explore the possibilities. So I am an adult man and want to meet people in everyday situations outside the regular circle. It's easy...

Hello, I have been involved with what some of you may call a cowgirl or a homewrecker. There was nothing sexual, only emails, a couple nights out for drinks and a few phone calls. I didn't know she was a cowgirl and she didn't know I didn't want to stray. My SO was clearly hurt by this, even if...

Hello, I am wondering if there is a "norm," in the sense that, if I have two women in my life, do they have to be good friends? Also, is there a guideline/balance in the sense that we either spend all the time together (three of us) or apart? I am fairly new and am trying to make sense of...

OK, so my first attempt at poly was not a success. Please read my previous post... Although I never cheated and was honest from the start, this attempt went nowhere. My approach may have been blunt and brutal but given the circumstances, I could not see any other options to get my message...

Hello, I really need help. Here is my first attempt at poly. I soo need to talk about this. I am not feeling well and even my work has been suffering. Background: Myself (Male, 35 YO) in LTR 5 years with SO (40YO with 16 YO child). We both come from an alternative background (fetish, kink)...