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    Poly my whole life ~ Now Struggling with fears & insecurities

    What a lovely indepth post of your feelings. Whilst you have embraced the poly relationship - and maybe because you have never felt like first. You are now in that position. Which means if you want mono, there is nothing wrong sweetheart in that, why should you despair in the love you feel, with...
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    Have we missed anything?

    We are ex pats yes, was I remiss in this. There is an apartment in the city. Used purely for leisure time. I would say no to 'seeking out' a community in the city, it is barely finding its cosmopolitian feet as yet. Ex pat communities are notoriously dog eat dog, and something we do not involve...
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    Have we missed anything?

    OK how and when did I say what she would be like, I can say she would have to like the countryside because if she didn't she would hate it. As there is little chance of her coming from around here, it would mean she would have to travel, our commitments to our land, our animals mean we can't not...
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    Have we missed anything?

    Good question BrigidsDaughter. Our problem is where we live. If we meet someone that would like us as a permanent occasional, I guess that would work for all. We would not expect someone to give up their home and life, unless they wanted, hey we all wanted. The location would be the issue...
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    Have we missed anything?

    I wrote a rather long and indepth reply to you mail, without using quote lines. Unfortunately, or maybe fortunately the site timed out. Don't presume you know anything about us by a few lines written. I think if the right person comes along they will see by how we are and what we believe in as a...
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Countryliving, because that is what we do, live a country life.
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    I am still trying to work out this system, but am reading your threads though old with interest...

    I am still trying to work out this system, but am reading your threads though old with interest. Would you be kind enough to read the couple of posts I have written and see if you understand what I am saying for us.
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    Have we missed anything?

    Thank you for your reply. I guess we can only say and do as we feel, it would be bizarre for either of us to treat a person as you describe Redpepper. Totally alien. We think as years go on all of us have baggage that come with us. Neither of us are on our first relationship. Valueing who you...
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    Have we missed anything?

    Firstly thank you for writing such an indepth reply to both. I can answer honestly in saying the answer is no for the other person to have another partner outside. You ask for the reason. The reason is we are enough of a relationship to share. I have already stated that we are both very...
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    Have we missed anything?

    My husband and I have discussed this subject until we are blue in the face. Finally we have taken the decision to do something about it. We have tried to think how someone might feel joining us. As 16 years together it might be off putting? In all the time of being together, we have always...
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    Just Saying Hiya

    Hi Peeps we are a couple who now live in Bulgaria. We live in the country, but have property in the city too. Our lives have changed so much over the last few years. We grow our own vegetables and fruit, bottle our own produce, buy locally milk, bread. Have our own animals, some pets and some...
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