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I think that would probably be the ideal outcome. But I'm fully open to my wife exploring other relationships too. We'll see I suppose.

Your sympathy is appreciated. And also the advice, which is absolutely spot on.

I suppose where I'm currently is inherently selfish. In that I hope for a sort of stability to continue having just thrown this at everyone. Including my parents today, which was a riot. As for game changers, we have a young daughter and he's just changed jobs (which is a good thing because a...

So, in an ideal world I remain married and so does my boyfriend. But I get that this may not happen and I'll have to cross that bridge when I get to it. I am not looking for polyamory as a solution. Or an excuse and I apologise if it comes across that way. I am not trying to take this...

Thank you, all, for the responses. To address a few. She is fine with my sexuality, and trans folk. I know this is a massive punch in the face which I feel awful about. And I know there isn't a quick or easy solution. Me and my boyfriend have told each other we love each other, and sex has...

Thank you Kevin. All of what you say makes sense. This is raw and new for all of us. I will keep this thread updated and I hope to be able to share positive things as time goes by.

Thanks Kevin, I genuinely appreciate that.

I am new at this, so I apologise if I don't explain myself well. But I found this forum and I think it will help me because I don't have any other polyam friends, other than my boyfriend, and this seems a really supportive place. So here goes... I'm a sexually fluid man, married. He's a trans...

Hello all. Just dropping a welcome before I venture further into the forum for advice. I hope to contribute too, as much as I can, this is new to me.