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Update... there's a lot... Well, since the last post, I had extensive conversations with the other half of the quad and I decided that at this point in time it was "too little too late" and that I couldn't be the person that they wanted in a relationship. We decided to keep sex in the picture...

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Yes. Pretty much nail on the head. They both have expressed that they are upset about it and don't like it. I told both of them that I wish they would have expressed these things all along and that it's not fair to me to save these feelings for a situation to arise. As for gamer guy... I...

I should also mention that I don't want anything to end. I've always been the kind of person who has too much love to give.

I am so lost right now. For the past year and a half, I've been in a quad with hubby and another couple. I've always been the one who wears her heart on her sleeve and isn't afraid to express love and affection. We decided to close it between us to try out my idea of a quad... See about it...

Thank you so much for your responses. They make complete sense to me. DH and fiance had their conversation tonight, and he told her that he was still interested in continuing with her, but only if it wasn't hurting her to be around him, have sex, spend time, etc and have no feelings. Her...

I'm married, and we are in a quad with another couple. For a little history, read Feelings involved... For TLDR, basically, DH and I swap with this other couple. I am in love with my OSO, and he has feelings for me, just not "love" feelings yet, because he wants to have all of the puzzle...

Thank you both for your responses. I really appreciate any feedback that I can get in this situation. I know that DH is referring to my husband, but what does it stand for? In response to your questions, Gala... I'm really not sure. I guess I almost feel like I'm neglecting my husband, and...

Hello! So about 3 months ago, my husband and I entered into a quad relationship with another couple (swapping partners) with the intention of it only being for play in the beginning. As we went along, we've discussed the possibility of feelings. We've never been opposed to them because we...

Thank you so much for your responses! I know we're new to everything, and we've decided to just roll with it, and see where it goes. I can't predict anything that's going to happen, but I do know that we have decided to not seek outside the quad for the time being, because it just feels right...

My husband and I have just recently started something similar with another couple. We've been in an open marriage for a little over 2 years now, but the quad thing is new and definitely exciting. Any advice you want to pass on to a newbie?

Hello everyone! I'm 26 years old, and my husband is 29, and we've had an open marriage for a little over 2 years now. We've been very successful thus far by continuing to communicate with each other at all times. Recently, we seem to have entered a "quad" relationship with another couple...