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    in need of advice - financial issues

    Sorry y'all, I've been meaning to come back for an update. We found out from her mother that she has a mental illness and she stopped taking her meds for a month and a half before she got pregnant because she thought that was what she was supposed to do. She never told us about it because she...
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    So really quickly, thank you for all your input and advice. She came over to our part of the house to "apologize". She hugged my husband and then tried to kiss him and he didn't let her. She told him that she was incredibly sorry for the things she said and the way she acted and want to...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    The Dr did confirm this afternoon that she is pregnant and it will be 6 weeks before we can get a paternity test. She is coming back tonight to stay until we get the paternity test results back. I know that it sounds crazy to let her come back and some of you think he is picking her over me...
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    I agree that it is incredibly stupid. But he feels like he is responsible to take care of her while she is pregnant with his baby. If she really is pregnant. I told him she could stay with friends or even stay in a motel that i would happily pay for during all of this and he refuses. I...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    After us dating her for over a year, I really believed we knew her. I really believed she loved us. We did not take her moving in with us in our home and marriage lightly. He and I discussed it for a few months and all three discussed it for several weeks. This was a very big decision that he...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    He told me last night that for 2 months she has been telling him that I don't love him anymore and was planning on leaving him. He said he didn't say anything because he was worried that I really did feel that way and he was afraid to say anything to me in case it would make me leave sooner...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    Hey I just wanted to quickly update y'all since you've been so helpful to us with this situation...she did leave that night and we have been scrambling to close debit and credit cards. I guess she tried to use the cards and found out she was SOL and has been texting and trying to call my...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    Thank you all very much for your advice. I decided that I would speak to my husband about this and he agreed that we should bring it up because she told him that she gave me money every week. :eek: So at dinner, I brought the subject up because lying is not forgivable in my house. She first...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    As I put it down in print and go back and read it I am astonished that we are doing this for this woman. It sounds crazy and ridiculous. I guess I just thought she would contribute like we all agreed to to begin with and that she would indeed fix whatever the dd issue was at her work. I feel...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    Thanks for the replies. I really don't know why she doesn't want to. After we put her name on the bank accounts, sh asked for voided check to get her check direct deposited and every time she gets paid she says something like "that's weird it didn't go into our account. I will have hr look into...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    So the short story is my husband and I have been with a wonderful woman for a year and a half and she moved in with us a little over 4 months ago. We all consider ourselves married to each other and have comitted to one another completely. My husband and my "wife" are planning to have a baby...
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