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The whole thread in general helped us a lot. But there were a couple of points I was trying to express that finally seemed to sink in with him. It made me very upset that he had hurt me. He was determined to make it right. So far, he is doing a great job! I went from feeling jealous and...

I agree! We talked about that too. His girlfriend said she would love to babysit for us so we can go out on a date or two while she is here. He also helps around the house whenever he can, or if I ask, so that's cool, too. He still flirts with me and tells me how much he loves me and how...

Thanks everyone, again, for the replies. My husband and I had a HUGE heart-to-heart talk about everything. I feel much more at peace with all of this. I think I was finally able to explain my feelings to him, thanks to coming here and talking to you all. We talked for HOURS. It was amazing! I...

Thank you all for the advice and support! His trips are starting to get expensive, and he has only taken two to go see her. :( I don't have a job. I'm a stay-at-home mom. I have no family to be with me. I have a friend here who likes to help out. But when my husband is away, I try to avoid...

Yes, we got together at age 15, and married right before our 19th birthdays. We have never had sex with anyone else. We met at such a young age and instantly fell in love with each other. I think his gf is 21, maybe 22, not sure. She knows I'm pregnant. She is actually super excited, and has...

We are both 24. We have been married for 5 1/2 years. We were dating for about 3 years before that. He tried to tell me a long time ago but I didn't listen. I don't think they make out naked. She loves in a one-room apartment. The times he was naked were when he was changing, getting ready...

I found out because he went to a training class for work, and was gone for 3 months. When I was unpacking he clothes to wash them, I found her underwear amongst them. She had tossed them at her clothes pile, but they got mixed up in his. She was in the middle of moving, and was staying with him...

Yes, I can see where it would seem weird they haven't done anything yet, but she has told me herself that she isn't interested in having sex, and if they were to ever do it, she has a 4-month rule. (They have been together for about 2 and a half months.) I asked my husband if he was lying to me...

Thank you for the replies! We haven't really set up solid boundaries, only sort of talked about what happens when they actually go to have sex. But it seems maybe this is moving a little fast for me to get used to. He doesn't seem to think so, and says I have placed myself in a bad situation...

Thank you, I will do that, already I feel better about all of this just be looking at other's forum topics! I am so glad I came here, you all seem to be a very nice community :)

I was wondering if you all could give me some advice. My husband recently opened up to me and told me he was poly. At first I was upset. I felt like I wasn't enough. Sometimes I still feel like that. But then I thought, just because I'm not this way, doesn't mean it's fake. So I decided to trust...

I'm new here, I'm not poly myself but my husband is. I thought I would join this forum so I can talk to others about all of this so I can try to better understand him. I hope you guys can help me out :)