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Agreed. For the OP, as a general rule, this forum encourages using older threads as a starting point to carry on conversations... so if there's something relevant to build upon, please feel welcome to do so. The only time there's problems is if new posters perhaps forget that the threads they...

Added options for 50 & 100 in addition to the 40's. Just be cautious with linking around the forum if you want to target a specific location in a thread... you'll want to link a particular post, not the page number.

You should generally get a single notification for any subscribed thread that has activity on it, *until* the next time you visit the forum. At the point that you've caught up on the thread, and then it will send another notification when it's next active. Thus you won't get notifications for...

Everyone keep in mind the forum guidelines and the dinner party analogy. Praise in public, chide in private of specific individuals is sound advice in general. Also, the OP has made a request to be given some room, and the anti-UH cadre has been warned previously about jumping on new members...

I know of the FB group of which you speak...and yes, it's hard to explain, but unless you're of a very specific political and geographic/cultural bent, it won't be a good fit. There is another with the same name where conversations are far more reasonable and poly oriented. There are going to...

Welcome to the Forum. Also if you're in the Calgary area, there's a local group active there as well. If interested, you can PM me for details.

Re-Opened Reviewed, cleaned, and open. Everyone please keep the Forum Guidelines in mind.

Welcome to the Forum Will. As someone who has done some of the processing you've alluded too, I can say unpacking all this stuff is a bit of a chore, and can take a fair amount of time. It's not easy, and requires perseverance and effort. However, it's entirely worth it, and extremely...

Welcome to the Forum Jesse! There has been some cleanup in the thread, so I'd like to remind everyone to review the guidelines, stay on the OP's topic, and try to get along and communicate in a productive, and respectful fashion... you know...like people in poly relationships might do.

Keep in mind that she's not the only one with a veto. You have one as well over your own relationship with him, and whether you want to be part of it. If you don't like having the sword of Damocles hanging over you, then there is the option to move away from the situation. It may be worth...

Goto the UserCP at the top left; http://www.polyamory.com/forum/usercp.php Then Edit Signature along the left side; http://www.polyamory.com/forum/profile.php?do=editsignature Additionally, I'd recommend checking the FAQ regarding time limits to edit posts (12 hours) and make sure you're...

With regrets, I have no way to troubleshoot this for you. We're on an older version of forum software, so there's no native smartphone support, and I don't know what the iPhones problem would be with the images. However, what I can suggest is making about 3 other posts from your computer. Once...

Check your friends list...you may find that there's a 1:1 correlation between who is on that list, and who has a "+" beside their names.

Not so much dropped, as kicked up my *** And this is where being so finely attuned to my partner also seems to have turned around to bite me in the ass. Sourgirl told me many moons ago that eventually I’d get sick of myself, and it seems to have happened...finally. A lot longer that it should...

And there’s the other shoe! Well…fuck! I am aware that I don’t update this nearly as often as I should. There’s about 2 or 3 sub-stories that could be told over the last several months, but instead there’s going to be a gross oversimplification of the smooth parts, with a headlong dashing of...

This is very much on target, and very much what this forum desperately needs at the moment. Many of the other recent comments in this thread fail on several levels... There's some questions some of you better be asking yourself when posting in this area.... Is it true? Is it Necessary? Is it...

Absolutely I would include this as to one of the many reasons that Urban Dictionary should in no way be considered an authoritative source of jack or shit. As an aside, if you want a laugh, look up "chicken scarf". In the case of the Unicorn definition, the one presented from UD earlier is...

And this is the kind of overloading of the term which does not belong.... The Unicorn term is used outside the poly world, through the swinging realm, and possibly some areas of the BDSM community. It doesn't belong exclusively to the poly community to redefine along a particular political...

The original thread posted in nuggets was a notification of the article, and discussions of the article itself. If LR's intention here is to discuss the concepts behind the article in greater detail, and separate from the article or author themselves, then I see no issues with this thread...