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  1. Emmjay

    Newby here

    Me too. I just started asking questions and making comments and away we went!
  2. Emmjay

    I am finally here!

    I love your opening Blue Sky, I can feel the positivity! My partner and I have just opened our relationship also and I appreciate other's sharing of experiences and feedback on making the path a positive one, even when it's scary and when it hurts. I would especially like to know how you moved...
  3. Emmjay

    Instigating and myths

    I get that. I don't know about you, but the more I read and chat with people the more I realize that I need to create my own definitions for the life I want to lead. I'm never going to fit the exact descriptions and I'm thinking with Poly, you don't have to. Something in the lifestyle triggered...
  4. Emmjay

    Poly-Friendly Pagans?

    Oh Evie I have to look into that! I want to feel a kablooie! Any suggestions on going through the chakras? Links? I suppose I could create my own recording like self-hypnosis. That may be better?
  5. Emmjay

    Instigating and myths

    Thanks so much for responses, I'm glad to know I'm not the only one tripping. (Singing Elton John I'm still standin')
  6. Emmjay

    Poly-Friendly Pagans?

    Hi there Evie! I'm just glad you're there. I would say I lean towards native American spirituality in that I believe in spirit and nature as a universal power kind of thing. I do spells and meditation. Right now learning more about chakras. I also work with the tarot, but they are the animal...
  7. Emmjay

    Poly-Friendly Pagans?

    Oh! Where have all the pagans gone? I was excited until I saw how old the posts were. Hello to the happy Pagan-polys wherever you are. Hope some will come and say hello.
  8. Emmjay

    Instigating and myths

    For those of you who have had relationships or were in a relationship when you decided you wanted to walk the Poly path, what was your process? Did you blurt it out? How did you approach your partner? How did they take it? How did you help them adjust and feel more comfortable? How did you...
  9. Emmjay

    Explorer with big ears. (Eyes?)

    No problem at all. They have weekly discussions. I'll be on Sept 22nd I connected with the discussions through Meetup and this is also their site. Very nice, caring people. https://www.meetup.com/Loving-More-Nonprofit-Polyamory-Meetup-Group and then they have their site: good information...
  10. Emmjay

    Explorer with big ears. (Eyes?)

    Kevin, Why do I cringe at the idea of dating? Would rather get together with a group of people and share. Why is there not a polyamory party always going down my street? Would make things SO much easier! Like I was answering on the other thread I went to an online discussion last week and it was...
  11. Emmjay

    Explorer with big ears. (Eyes?)

    Maygdlyn, You know you give me hope on the age thing. That actually tripped me up at first. I thought, what the heck am I doing at 51 and going ethical slut whooo hooo!? But, it looks like it took me this long to realize this is what I wanted, and then to actually hear myself! And then to...
  12. Emmjay

    Explorer with big ears. (Eyes?)

    Can I ask your story? How it started for you? How you met the second and how you keep the balance? I don't think I want the commitments like you have? That may be the wrong word. For me, it would be more about friendships. Not all have to be sexual. When you say max out, do you mean......hahaha...
  13. Emmjay

    Changing relationship dynamic?

    This is an awesome thread with so much great information for everyone. I have to say, for myself, I backtracked a little on the primary relationship and we are focused on the foundation, the friendship. Then we started exploring eachother sexually, and I was very specific on communicating what I...
  14. Emmjay

    Explorer with big ears. (Eyes?)

    Hi there! I am in the exploration, research, talking to people stage. I am married and I've also developed a distant friendship/explore sexuality friendship recently that has lit me up like a firefly. It also awakened me to patterns I'm seeing in myself over the years. I've come to the point...
  15. Emmjay

    Walking in the dark

    Thanks so much! Looks like I needed to introduce myself on a designated thread. I always did leap before looking...on my way!
  16. Emmjay

    Walking in the dark

    Hi there! Oh god so happy to find this forum with real people that have something to share and have done it in the last year! Hooray! Would be happy for any discussions or advice. I have hooked up on meetups and will be attending, but its nice to chat here and see what people are feeling and...
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