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Break up I'm a pansexual gender neutral female and recently became single after my ex-boyfriend stepped on my heart with cleats a few months ago. A little over 2 years ago I was divorced from my ex-husband who was open to me exploring polyamory, but the marriage was ill-suited to us for a few...

Redpepper, I want a romantic relationship with him that can grow to sexual intimacy. He said before, "I believe in polyamory in the strictest literal definition, that one can experience romantic love for more than one person." You know, though, I didn't think that another person's experience of...

Lol, SoCal! Thank you for sharing! I hope you found your eggnog ;) I'm sorry to hear about your frustration. I think that feelings of frustration goes with the territory, though. Miscommunications, as well. Lately, the way that I have been talking to Artist about polyamory has been a bit...

Wow, so many intense feelings. I can totally relate. Some personal experience I hae with processig guilt is to except that I feel it and not try to push it away or rationalize my guiltlessness or otherwise try not to feel my feelings. When I except them completely they pass quicker.

SoCalExile, I think he meant principles as in personal principles that restrict one from behaving badly. ...I'm wondering what else it could mean?

That sounds about right, Imagination. To think that people all over could be happily sharing their mate to further and heighten their love and enjoyment is too open-minded to ask for, lol. Just a subtle shift in thought, though... I am afraid to ask him, but I will as soon as I can get the...

Damn... Yeah. I'll have to ask him.

You know, letting him sit with the idea first, and then just coming out with, "I love you and I'm open to more than a platonic relationship," in a couple months sounds like a good idea. And yes, he knows specifically that I am polyamorous. We just haven't discussed how that might manifest. I did...

Thank you for the reply, Imagination! My husband is open and supportive. I keep him up to date on everything that I'm going through. He is monoamorous, and I am feeling like there is a disconnect there, to certain extent. I wish he understood how I feel, but he is supportive and nonjudgmental...

Hello Everyone! So I started trying to ask some questions about this in Introductions, but I think I should bring it up in here so I can get more feedback and discussion. I am finding it therapeutic just typing these thoughts, anyway. I am not new to the idea of polyamory, just new to the...

Hi Mike! Welcome. I'm new too. My husband's name is Mike too.

Thank you for the welcome! I am wondering if there are any threads about unrequitted love and loves taking the form of the friendship relationship and if anyone could steer me in the right direction. I don't really see myself seeking out a secondary relationship. If another great love happens...

Hello! I have been perusing the site for a few days and have decided to join and stop trolling! I have, for most of my romantic life, known that I had the ability to experience love for more than one person. What I didn't know was that there was a word for it or that I shouldn't feel guilty...