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Just explaining my polyanarchist mindset to a friend did a world of help to me, and I don't feel so crazy hahaha. So I'm off to go peruse for advice I can give!

Hey there guys, its been a while. To be honest, I was coming here for advice, not community itself. I needed to figure myself out. I didn't post on other threads, I only asked questions. But I feel I can really start to contribute in ways that are necessary to be part of a community and I'd like...

It's more so a lack of response to the questions in my other post that pretty much every practicing polyamorous person would have an answer to. I am sorry if I'm a little annoying with all my questions and such but I thought those would be the best questions to ask to learn better for myself

Yeah the internet has never been filled with people interested in helping me before so hey. We can figure this stuff out on our own, though it would have been nice to have insight from those of a wiser standpoint. I saw this site as a great way to talk to people about their past and present...

For some reason I feel the utmost faith in my ability to handle my love dating other people. I feel the utmost faith in our communication skills, as they have been reaching insane levels of intimacy since we decided to go poly. We've been in a general state of agreement and happiness(strictly)...

Okay so along with the discussion of the present, I'd like to also have a better understanding of what to bring up about the future. Sorry for the many different posts lately I just feel your posts help point our conversation in the right direction. So on to the bulk of this post:How did...

Well for starters I would like to say that we have yet to act on these desires because we would like for it to happen naturally if at all. So after talking out our issue with my introductory post, we realized that we still definitely want to give this a go, it just needed to be more communicated...

The books title signifies that we are all essentially limbs of the Creator, and we live so he can know himself. It stresses that since we all are the creator that we should strive for love and to be loved. It also explains that there is no inherit right or wrong but only "service to self" or...

It was more the fact that to her, it looked like I said " my girlfriend is physically attracted to people but I'm more interested in the brains" which isn't true, she is one of the most loving and caring people I know. I understand in retrospect where she is coming from but my biggest concern is...

So I got into polyamory after reading the Law of One on my own. The best part about this beleif system to me is the fact that even if I'm so very wrong, it doesn't matter. Now my only goal in this life is peace and love. This book really changed my life and outlook on the future. One of the...

Well its not disappointment, its that I feel it's her worrying what I think about her, I used the wrong choice of words is all and she thinks I see her as something she's not. And first and foremost I love this woman, that's why I would be fine with monogomy. I know she's allowed to change her...

Well I was doing an introduction on this forum and I wrote it in a way that when she read it, she interpreted it as me seeing her as a shallow person. This is definitely not the case, I know she she's this all on an intellectual level. The real problem is that she out of the blue told me she...

So for the last few weeks my girlfriend(20) and I(m/20) have been discussing polyamory and if it might be right for us. But last night I worded things wrong and accidentally hurt her feelings. She is under the impression that I think she's interested in this for shallow means and it definitely...

Me (m/20) and my significant other (f/20) went into this relationship with some kind of silent understanding that we'd eventually become an open relationship. I haven't really had much chance to really explore my sexuality, and she has always favored women over men. Knowing this and how much I...