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*Im sorry about the novel but I'm in a fucking crisis right now and I have no idea what to do.* So my husband and I have been struggling financially and needing new jobs. I have a job, but it's a shit job leading nowhere and I'm miserable. I've discovered the direction I want to go in and I've...

I feel like I'm always coming here with issues, but this one was a pretty big one considering it's the first major fight I've had with my metamor. I just need to make sure that I'm being fair and have a right to be upset in this instance. Pixie has batted around the prospect of threesomes for a...

Is anyone else here involved with a larger live-in poly household? How does the dynamics of the relationships work around you? Are you close with the other partners? Do you have boundaries on interactions/friendships? Ex: Zed and I live across the street from our cross-couple, who also live...

Empathic abilities weren't really something I took very seriously for a long time. When it was described to me, those struggles sounded normal. After recent struggles, however, I began to understand that not everyone feels this way and not in the degree that it affects their life to the extreme...

This weekend I've had some really incredibly emotionally jolting realizations about myself. Coming here about it in hopes to not feel so crazy/selfish/what have you. The prospect of threesomes have come up in our poly family lately. Primarily and experience that Zed has expressed wanting for a...

*I KNOW THIS IS VERY LONG. IM SORRY ABOUT YOUR EYES* Cuba and I have been seeing each other with benefits for about 6 months now. When we first began, I disclosed what this means: Honesty, Trust, Communication. I would love to have something more than FWB, but I enjoy his company either way...

So over the months, Zed, Dean, Pixie, and I have taken the advice from the More Than Two book and developed a weekly schedule for switch nights. Therefore Dean has me Tuesdays and Fridays and Zed has me the other days of the week. So far this schedule has worked quite well. Now, this coming...

Anyone else experience this? I'm sure most of you have, it would just do me some good to relate with some seasoned poly friend advice on this topic. I had a feeling this would happen, but it's hit me in areas I never really thought that it would. When mono friends/acquaintances become bitter...

I know I am. Harley Quinn is my theme this year. :)

Some of you may know of my relationship with Cuba. Those of you that don't, we've had a casual thing for almost 5 months now. A comedian from my home town who is honestly one of the best men I know. He's incredibly considerate, a loyal "bro" type, who takes his responsibilities headlong and...

Last night I got a call from my best friend. It was a pretty normal "shitty night" convo which extended to an hour and a half of conversation. To understand our friendship, it's really important to establish some history. We've known each other about 6 years. We shared the same best friend who...

My husband and I became poly about 6 months ago. It's been an interesting journey. In short, Pixie and Dean was the first couple we talked to there in the very beginning. Over the course of 4 weeks we were all advancing a relationship up until people felt too much pressure and our friendships...

I've been posting/lurking on here for a bit now, mostly trying to keep my thoughts organized in this new journey of ours. But I realized that I never actually posted an introduction. Alot of my situation is explained in my signature so I will just expand a little more: I am a 25 year old...

Hi there from Bunnie. Just in the short time I have been on here, I would like to say that I have felt very welcome. It's hard to find a community of poly supporters and this forum seems to be full of nothing but major support for alternative lifestyles such as this. As stated in my...

Hi there. I am Bunnie. 24 year old female. I am a photographer and I live about an hour from the smokies. My husband and I recently became poly and it's brought us even closer than we've been before after nearly 10 years of knowing each other. It's been a wonderful change for ourselves and...