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    Confused, Sad, and Trying to figure things out

    Well.....after a ton of thought and deliberation, I decided to give him my "ok". I do need to work on myself and I don't want to have a time limit on it because then its about "the issue" and not *my* issues separately. Also, if I didn't give my "ok" in a year, well, I didn't want to go...
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    Confused, Sad, and Trying to figure things out

    Your post really resonated with me, especially after visiting with my therapist. She was supportive as well, and willing to work with me on my issues (of course) for me, which also translates into feeling more secure in my relationship with bf. Its definitely long-term. We've even loved each...
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    Confused, Sad, and Trying to figure things out

    It would probably end up being a relationship. My bf has only had one or two one-nighters. Everything else has been serious relationhips. That's just how he seems to operate. And while that's been great for me and his wife, I have worries about what it means now for me if he brings someone...
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    Confused, Sad, and Trying to figure things out

    There isn't any cheating......wife knows about husband/my bf wanting to go outside their marriage and our (me and bf) relationship. Bf/husband knows about wife's sex with others. Bf and husband are the same person. Except for bf#2 which is wife's steady bf. I'm sorry for the confusion...
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    Confused, Sad, and Trying to figure things out

    Hi! I'm currently having issues. Tonight my bf, who is married (all is well that way - we've lived on the same property - two houses - for 3 years), told me that he's wanting to see other people for sex or even another relationship. I am more than fine with his wife. She has a bf, and is...
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    Intro to me

    Hello! I'm 30 and currently in a polyamorous relationship with my bf of 15 years (off and on) who is married. Its been working out for 3 years now. We live on the same property in two separate houses. My bf loves me dearly, as I do him. He's known his wife for as long (1 year longer) as...
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