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    Comparing myself to Meta

    Well shit, Bobbi. That was unnecessarily harsh. I get what you're saying, but jabbing at my fears and then saying "just go be confident" is less than helpful. You didn't ask and just made assumptions, but no, I don't rely on him to feed my self esteem. I don't manipulate him to make me feel...
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    Comparing myself to Meta

    That made me cry. That's definitely what I need to do because I have zero sparkle right now. It's been feeding into my feelings of not being wanted because I'm actively being unlikable. I've been pushing myself harder at the gym and I like my progress, but I can barely focus on anything else...
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    Comparing myself to Meta

    I saw this post, which is similar to my situation and would like feedback or guidance to process my feelings. Thread: 'New meta is better than me in every way' https://polyamory.com/threads/new-meta-is-better-than-me-in-every-way.156799/ Background- I've been with my husband for 22 years, since...
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    New meta is better than me in every way

    I'm new to this site and don't know how to link a post.
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    New meta is better than me in every way

    With FirstWinter leaving the conversation dangling, could I hijack this? My situation is very similar and I'm STRUGGLING. I'm not sure what the etiquette is for this, or if I should create my own new post.
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