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In the meantime, I just have to say that I think you might have a an overly egalitarian view of things around you that don't apply to egalitarinism. It seems like you no longer have any sensible opinions because you've become jaded by egalitarianism. Like you're fighting for the right for pepper...

In so many words: This just shows me how much you know. Your communication is immature, reactive, and contains words that are caustic when coupled with your intentions. If you don't mind fooling yourself by only listening to those who support you (your family and friends), than by all means go...

FORUM GUIDELINES: "These discussion boards were founded to provide space for all manner of discussion about polyamory" "The founder and moderation staff hope that site members can find kindred souls to offer support and insight in a civil and possibly friendly, caring fashion" You're free to...

It's just called having a clue.

Another thing about my own behavior here on the forum as interpreted by others who have been here for a long time: This is new to me. And I think it's probably within reason that part of opening up can be opening up too much. Overextending ideas. Seeing what happens when you embrace ideas that...

That would be a different forum. Here we talk about love, sex, relationships, poly, etc. But I guess you could open a dialogue up on how Philanthropy compares to the concept of Compersion. If you even care to be serious on this forum. That might be worth discussing, instead of sarcastic...

I cede to your experience, but in my experience here, flirting with the chicks, forming friendships, meeting families, I believe they are a lot more willing to let their daughters have a boost in life than you seem to think. Maybe it's good timing, or the people I pick up on, but only time will...

The same thing happened when I said I was probably the most mature man on the island. It did not mean that I think so highly of myself that I think I'm the most mature man in the world. Just that here, it's not difficult to take the title. Down here there are people that are wrecks of...

More fish in the sea.

OMG here we go again. You don't live here. I do. If you did, you would get what I'm talking about. I am not a racist, bigot, supremacist, elitist, or any of that. But if you are trying to tell me that a homeless orphaned boy on the street knows what an Andy Warhol is, you're really just...

Sorry but I missed the context of what the two points with a gulf between them was? Let me know, sorry, mind is wandering today... Absolutely. I love how you said that. Maybe doing what I'm thinking is new to me and I need to learn how to do it responsibly, but I am a responsible person and I am...

If you're able to communicate your previous post (not this one, this one's fine) more respectfully, than I can directly answer you and your "you" comments. :rolleyes: If you don't need that, than by all means just spout your jaded opinions left and right. But don't expect something like that to...

I don't appreciate how you communicate. :rolleyes: I'm not going to give you my time/response unless you can do so more respectfully. :cool:

There will be a lot of "unless"-es, that's the point of a list of boundaries. However, like I mentioned before if it's a really together, cool guy, who can handle communication, feelings, others, and is basically a "poly guru" than it could be fine. But allowing the girls the freedom to go find...

Everyone my name here is POLYPHONIC. The other name which used the name Evan, is no longer. Thanks.

It's not about sex.

That's good sound logic. Makes sense. Except I am actually talking about the more difficult task of finding locals who are interested in a free-er life, of free-er thinking, who are enamored by the idea of merging with a cultured westerner (even if for a limited time (months, years)). Women who...

Right. That's true. I didn't realize it but that does factor into the differences between what I am thinking/imagining, and what they are doing. In almost all scenarios I want to be the provider. Right. Such a good point. Thanks for focusing on this aspect, it may even reveal insecurities of my...

Hey all I never said suicide was mentioned. I only said I was worried about the possibility. Someone else interpreted it as that my fiancee said something about that, but it was nothing of the sort. I only said I was worried about her hurting herself after seeing her trying to be destructive to...

You frame it so nicely. Thanks for the sentiments. I'm still bummed we have come to this crossing instead of having known it from the outset. That's the source of some resentment right now. Not so much on my part, I accept that these things happen and there was nothing we could do back then when...