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I had the scary thought today, that maybe a poly person who permits their partner to enjoy relations with other(s), is really just a tool, and vice-versa. from the Urban Dictionary: "Tool" - One who lacks the mental capacity to know he is being used. A fool. A cretin. Characterized by low...

Can the more experienced polys share their advice on creating rules for their poly relationships? Including any rules or guidelines that you have made for your own relationships? I am getting close to forming my first poly relationship and would like to have some foresight before getting into...

I can already see the usefulness and need for having a lifestory blog here, because I intend to go the distance, however I am admittedly at the very cusp of my journey. Thoughts and events are bubbling to the surface, as I grow, or "open up", as a possibly Poly person, and I think it would be...

I think the biggest fear/hurdle/rub in getting a Mono to understand Poly is to stop comparing the two. Poly works, and creates happiness, intrinsic to it's "poly ways", not in any way intrinsic to "mono ways". And so Mono's have the mental block/hurdle of understanding how "poly ways" create...

"What ideas for compromise can she(mono) and I(poly) come to?" Hi, I've got a huge problem at home, that for you guys probably will seem like pretty small fry as far as poly/mono dilemmas go (because I'm not asking for another person to move in with us). I'm new to understanding poly and I...