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  1. Jodi

    Finding Poly-Friendly Professionals

    http://www.lovemore.com/polyprofessional.php there u go, but none from alaska, but mb if u call another therapist and ask her/him they can direct you. good luck.
  2. Jodi

    Finding Poly-Friendly Professionals

    i blv the lovingmore.com website has a list. when i go on next time, i'll get link 4 u.
  3. Jodi

    Girlfriend, Co-parent, and Full time student!

    best of luck with your move and settling in! a new baby...so much joy!
  4. Jodi

    Alpha... by Accident

    can you do the recruiting? maybe if you establish a friendship first, with a woman/women looking for a couple, then you can see how your husband/boyfriend likes her. but, i heard it's hard to find a woman for a couple...sorry, i wasn't sure if the girlfriend would be for both of you. hang in...
  5. Jodi

    I think I'm being targeted as a blue unicorn!

    i would think about what it is that you want from the couple, such as a try at a long term relationship or if you are ok, with once in a while sexual encounters. if i were in your shoes, i would be curious to know if the couple was interested in using me for (using me not such a great sounding...
  6. Jodi

    Introvert/Extrovert Casual Survey

    i havent' thought about this before. my closest friends are more introverted. my boyfriends wife is totally extroverted, he is introverted i feel, and i am in the middle....as usual! lol. do you think that you and your SO balance eachother well?
  7. Jodi

    Introduction

    i hope that you enjoy your journey and find a gal that you really like. i think it's interesting and a good indication of the closeness of your relationship that you talked about it and are aiming towards polyamory. because there is also swinging, which is more like just a sexual encounter...
  8. Jodi

    Different approaches to poly

    in my relationship, i can feel howit's enhanced me as a person, meaning, i feel closer to my boyfriend's children and welcomed in their marriage. but, i don't feel we are growing as a family...we don't live together, but the husband/ my boyfriend, is so quick to keep our relationship a secret...
  9. Jodi

    Did I handle the situation right?

    sure, i think that you are better off telling him about your views on relationships sooner than later. as long as you're prepared for him to not agree with you...or him staying hoping your ideas will not come to fruition. you did the right thing. good luck w/ the professor.
  10. Jodi

    the beginnings of a breakup...

    you never have to have sex if you don't want to. it's your body. i don't think that there's much to do except wait for her to go, and then reestablish a relationship w/ your boyfriend. i hope that he will talk to you again before making any life changing decisions. i think it's a blessing in...
  11. Jodi

    thinking @ goin to poly convention

    how about a game night or wine and cheese party, or things like charades. but definately, family fun days are the best with a workshop, hands-on craft or group project for everyone...like a giant weaving or....mural that everyone can work on at their leisure. fun!
  12. Jodi

    3 becomming one

    i can agree and you phrased it very well. my triangle is such a gift. a few kinks but well worth the experience and the love involved w/ eachothers children is very much worth it.
  13. Jodi

    sifting through the ashes

    i'm sorry that you have been hurt. when people leave unexpectedly, it like a sucker-punch coming out of nowhere, it totally leave you reeling. maybe he, T, doesn't even know why he did it. i bet when you find some peace with the situaion, Waterwolf's anger will subside. i think you should...
  14. Jodi

    my boyfriend & wife, feel weird asking..

    hi. i wasn't sure about even writing about this. but, i will. i think i feel silly, stop "beating around the bush". i would really like my boyfriend to come to the poly conference coming up in our area. his wife and i have been friends longer than he and i have been together intimately. but...
  15. Jodi

    hi rp..i tried to copy the link but it kept saying it was too long..but the list of speakers and...

    hi rp..i tried to copy the link but it kept saying it was too long..but the list of speakers and topics is in the section, events here, or under today's posts....and what the heck is a cuddle party!? i love making love..but not that into strangers in my personal space, lol!
  16. Jodi

    Howdy

    hi vivien. welcome. i've been on this forum for a few months now. ur little one is lucky to have all that love and support! i have 4 children, my younger ones seem comfortable with my poly lifestyle, my teens, that's another story. ha. i'm glad that things are happy for you right now. enjoy it!!
  17. Jodi

    Poly Family???

    also, to get to know dads partner better...ask her if she ever needs some time to herself, you can watch the kids, or ask her if she wants to go out for pizza or something.
  18. Jodi

    next level?

    i know ray, but on the bright side...we don't deal with all of the annoyances of paying bills together, trying to negotiate who's turn it is to clean the bathroom, that kind of thing... it still is a special relationship...but, yes, they have the 17 year bond. to witness their intimacy is...
  19. Jodi

    j, is now Jay.

    i'm sorry that your marriage ended. but it sounds as if you are still friends, plus you have children, no? best of luck!!!
  20. Jodi

    thinking @ goin to poly convention

    wow, that's quite a motley crew u have there! thanks for answering my post. you've helped me decide...yes, it will be nice to get out..so i'll go..actually a member here has gonefor several years, so at least ill be able to say hello to someonei 'm acquainted with. take care!!!
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