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That's not the only reason I have an issue with it. I've seen older male friends of mine get ditched. Get cheated on. I cheated on guys in my 20s left and right. I was dishonest. I did horrible things to people because I didn't know wtf I was doing. The power imbalance. The financial imbalance...

And sorry for the editing. I'm a writer. I tend to to do that. Thoughts I think I should add pop up constantly lol

Nope. I don't get lied to because "I'm willing to lie, myself." That is not something I would have ever done, nor have I done anything like this in the past. The last time I cheated on a partner or lied to them, *I* was in my 20s. College age. And no, Biff and Kate don't have anything to do...

BTW, Biff owns businesses where he has 20-somethings working for him. They know me as his girlfriend, and they're all very sweet and nice to me... but even still, I feel this sort of wall between us. It's like, "I'll be cool with you while you're here in my workplace, but I wouldn't go out of my...

You raise very good points. Thank you. Touche, about the other meta's need for secrecy causing drama. Biff doesn't even see it that way, I guess because he's love-blind. If it were me, I'd have a big problem with my partner wanting to hide something from me. Yeah, let's call the other partner...

Also, I appreciate all the time you're putting into this. I'm open to other views and examining where I may be experiencing an unfair bias.

Sorry, I should've given more details about the meta. BTW, I did designate names for my bf and the younger girl, who isn't YET a meta. I'm still not sure what she is, because he tells me different contradictory things about her. Let's call her a friend he messes around with, I guess. Biff is my...

I get what you're saying. I sat down over the weekend and did an inventory. I've been lied to by nearly everyone I've been in.a relationship with. Lied to, abused, etc. Age had nothing to do with that. I will add tho-- Your current partners aren't in their 20s. I've had roommates in their 20s...

Ikr? He doesn't want to lose me, but he doesn't want to make an agreement about this, and he doesn't want to be told what to do. He can't have it all ways.

My partner Biff and I have been together 8 months now. I'm new to poly, but not to ENM. When we first started dating, he told me he was doing online dating, but that it was hard to meet people. He said he was getting 20somethings contacting him, but he wasn't interested. He said "What on earth...