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    Poly, married and Black (British)

    Hi all, I'm Mr. Babe (Babe's husband). We are both poly. She has a partner outside our marriage, which I totally support and endorse. While I have been polyamorous for years (even before I knew there was a name for it), it's been a struggle to make this theoretical poly of mine practical...
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    Dating sites - besides OKC...

    Re: dating sites other than OKC Andy I hear you my brother. I know this may not help you at all but you are not alone. Unfortunately much that OKC is very poly-friendly we (sadly) can't create more poly or poly-curious women out there. I & my wife had been back on OKC for about four months...
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    I Want and Need Balance - Don't We All?

    MonoVCPHG I am definitely heading in your direction over this. They have crossed that bridge so do I really have to know about each occasion? BTW I do trust Babe implicitly and we have a condom agreement too. She is not doing random hookups I am pleased to say. Thanks for your words Mr. Babe
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    I Want and Need Balance - Don't We All?

    redpepper Very important first point. I would like to see how I react to her and other lover/s when we are having some quality time together. I think it would be much better all around. I also agree about sex being a "very important connecting and bonding experience" See my last about keeping...
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    I Want and Need Balance - Don't We All?

    Sage Yes it is Mr. Babe writing and I hear you on the fairness thing. Poly or non poly, I feel any open relationship takes a lot of defining and communication. We have and are talking about getting more quality time together. We agree that this is important to our rel. Regarding their sex...
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    I Want and Need Balance - Don't We All?

    I have two questions that have been bugging me for a while now. I am in a wonderful, open, polyesque marriage. I say polyesque as I am poly but Babe is just open ..... but she does respect my polyness. Q1. Is it normal, or even ok, for me to feel the need to want to see someone else whenever...
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    new, feeling lost

    babe's husband Hi all I just wanted to reiterate and add to my wife's introduction. We hope to find great help and support and sharing as we meander through our wondeful open marriage. My wife 'babe' kindly pointed out that I like to say I am poly. Correction: I AM poly but she is not...
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    new, feeling lost

    My husband and I are in an open relationship, we both see 'old flames' from time to time. We both battle with jealousy, but strongly feel that it is healthy to be able to step out of daily life (with 3 kids). He likes to call himself poly, I dislike labels as I feel that with labels come rules...
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