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I am sorry that this as occurred. Just confused as why Sam doesn't have the option to stay involved with you. Seems like your being independent in taking the decision away from him.

Maybe your feelings stemmed from the Xmas fallout with Claire. This was suppose to be the make up trip. Maybe it was the unknown of Sam you and Ryder being intimate. You seem to have gotten a "high" from that interaction, then it being so different. It could be a lot of things. But, isn't it...

Vote for a blog...lol. it is what it is it isn't for popularity or judgement... Cray

Nice to see you worrying about your relationship with Ryder and not worrying about being "fair"! I think by being "fair" with Claire, some of these recent issues have occurred due to you being the "laidback" one. I always enjoy reading your blog!

IMHO, I think during for alienation is not going to win him back. If anything it will make him resentful. Quiet honestly, poly has no place in this. Your husband according to your initial writings misled you into moving in. I think with your level of stress it is better if your not there. I...

I think instant message does not give a good read on feelings. I think he doesn't get it unless it is clear. I think it isn't blackmail or anything like this. How about a simple thing of, gee I waited in a fair manner for an answer for thanksgiving. This was done with so you could consult...

We adopted a child. It is an amazing gift. We were lucky in that we got our child at birth. In retrospect, we found out there were siblings that we could have gotten. However that wasn't disclosed to us till it was to late. However, our child is a shining star in my life.

Hugs! It is an impossible situation with your heart.

Thanks for sharing the picture. How is your middle child doing?

I think that maybe you need to speak up for yourself. I think he was very selfish at your expense. You get treated how you teach people to treat you. Is it possible that you have been the "flexible, fair" one and how he expects that always? He asked you to stay home and spend time with him...

Kitty if you want to move home file their. I know from past thread you just moved to Az. Your pregnant with a toddler, go to your home state and file Keep is posted. How are you feeling.

My hot sexy guy is remaining my texting and phone call buddy right now. I totally appreciate that. My child is worse, they have dx'ed 2 teenage onset syndromes and found an inherited condition. They feel there is another underlying condtion as well. She has 4 different doctor teams, a pain...

My understanding from your other thread was you didn't realize till you moved away from your support system that it was for this relationship. My understanding is until all relationships are stable your shouldn't blend the families, that didn't happen. Your issue with Poly seems to be the lack...

My husband Bear has adhd and asbergers. Some coping mechanics we have worked out with his therapist are smart phone with an alarm for daily tasks. Smart phone with list for tasks. Smart phone with alarm for time spend with our daughters reading time Ridding himself of nine objects a day, that...

I currently am living with my husband. We aren't sexually active togather for a variety of reasons. low libido on his part, mine just kinda of not feeling wanted by him and just not into another human right now. My last serious relationship ended on a toxic note over a year ago. I miss him...

Your getting your coffee time with bud and her spending the night and being woken is part of the price of this type of relationship. Happy metaphors happy life, as long as it isn't unreasonable. Honesty, let them worry about their relationship. You let bud know a simple request, he heard...

Sorry things turned out this way. When one door closes another opens, hugs

I am very glad you were able to communicate and gain some clarity on your situation. I will say from the point of view of a young mother, that a two week ahead plan is almost impossible. Can you compromise on that? Remember to state very clearly what your needs are, and make sure that Ginger...

My Aspie primary can be the same. Mine does not see the ripples of his actions. Unless I said to him, I need you to be with me tonight, period, he wouldn't see what the results are. Mine needs me to explain, you're hurting me, breaking agreements, and I am at the point that the pain I am in...

Living with an aspie primary, I know the pain of his total focus on another person or even computer. It is daunting. They do not intend to hurt, but they do. I am especially concerned with miss pixie going away, with your coping. I believe that you can only deal with what you can deal with...