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My new bf lives in the Southwest. My husband has stated that he would be willing to transfer his position, so we could move and I could be nearer to my bf. My husband loves me and wants me happy. My bf has a hard time with the idea of sharing. My husband and I have been together a long time...

Mohegan, So glad to hear your coming to some peace for yourself! Seems like changing your diet has helped health wise and exercise. I have every confidence you will find yourself on the right path. LYBL

Why not turn to Karma and tell him you don't feel supported that you feel pressured. Let him know how you feel about date night. Be honest with him, your worth it!!!!!!!

Thanks for answering. I understand where your coming from. Trying to be fair to everyone sometimes results in your needs not being met. Remember in the long wrong if you state you needs in a good way, then you don't have unreal expectations or resentments when unknown needs aren't met.

Dragonflysky, I was just asking if when you discussed your relationship with your guy, if you let him know how you felt about the disregard you felt about your illness. That they wouldn't even offer to have one come and the other go to the swimmeet. LYB

Sorry DH is a commonly known as dear husband DS dear son DW dear wife dd dear daughter I have great support with my condition. Even my dogs give support. Sometimes my body takes on the ambient temperature. So the dogs laying against me can really help.

I have chronic medical issues and I can't image my DH or BF not being there for me. I wondered when you had your conversation about your needs being met during your recent health scare. I hope I am not being to nosy. I can understand the idea of fear of controlling.

There is also a booked called The One. Which ultimately is kind of a not all good and not all bad of poly. I first heard of poly through fiction. I will check out the books you mentioned.

I love Tymber Dalton for fictional books in regards to polyamory. She has some intense BDSM ones as well. She is on Amazon and you can download a Kindle reader onto your PC.

I'm sorry you are no longer posting. I found you to be honest and reading your posting helped me on my journey. To bad people were judgemental when this appeared to be helping you on your journey.

Is it possible you're doing what is called "hysterical bonding"? This is usually an affair-mentality type thing.