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I come from an environment where everything is talked out. All spewers I guess.

I, like @icesong and Dag am a spewer. My wife, like you, is a chewer. Abandonment and confusion are feelings Dag has expressed that I can understand. When I leaned into this I found the fear driving them was that of not being heard and my concern being dropped. What I've asked my wife to do...

https://www.multiamory.com/podcast/264-are-you-a-chewer-or-spewer

@BrokenArrow - Oh good, not: Broken Arrow (plural Broken Arrows) (US, euphemistic, military) An accidental event that involves nuclear weapons or nuclear components but does not create the risk of nuclear war.[1][2] quotations ▼ (US, military) a code phrase that a ground unit is facing...

Only us newbies will see this, from the top of the page: "{musername}, as a new member your first 5 posts will be subject to moderation." {musername} probably not was meant.

To him, this is making love. Because it truly is not to him. Because they are probably using a black/white model of asexuality. If they asked, "Do you like sex?" and he answered he did then they may move on. But the truth is, there are asexual people that like sex. Yes.

Good morning @Aurora155 , Okay, not only have I read your story, I've lived it. Married longer than you've been alive. Trust me when I say that professionals don't always understand asexuality and in fact can cause damage. Asexuality has 'flavors' and the one you describe is one I know well...

I've read similar to your story a dozen times. Check out this forum concerning asexuality. Might ring a bell.