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Hi all, It's been a long time since I've been here. I'm bi, married for many years, broke up with my first GF in March and spent the year coming to terms with that. It was hard, but I'm better now. I've been seeing another woman recently, although still platonic while she decides how she...

Hi, I've been trying to PM someone and while it appears the message sends, it doesn't appear in my sent folder. I have tried twice. I don't want to barrage this person if they are going through. I want to be sure there's not something I'm misunderstanding about how this is supposed to work. And...

I have loved Smart Girl for more than 10 fraught, complicated years---since before she was married. We've been together to varying degrees over all that time, and had a serious long-distance relationship for about a year, since she and her shitty husband finally split up. It's been a process for...

The people you love resent the crap outta you? Sometimes it feels like both my husband and my GF resent me--they feel I'm getting away with something. That whole having my cake and eating it too thing. (And, as I said elsewhere, it's a lot of cake for one person.) It's not like I don't...

I'm new to poly and am struggling with the learning curve. My husband agreed to let me have a relationship with a woman I've been friends/lovers with on and off for many years. She and I are back together after a three-year break, during which she divorced. My husband is not thrilled, but he is...

Hi all, I'm hoping this forum will provide a place for me to talk/vent through the challenges of making polyamory work. While I have friends who know my situation and want me to be happy, they don't really get it and are mostly holding their breath (with trepidation) waiting for it all to blow...