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Yeah. I think I'll just suggest that we look into poly relationships and determine more individually if it's for us or not. Cause yea, this thread has been a bit messy and that's because there's still so much to read about and consider. Theres so much that i dont know and stuff im still...

I think the issue is that I keep talking and thinking in terms of "we"? Cause I'm really not sure I can state my bf's intentions or what he is/isn't okay with. I assume he'd be okay with her dating outside of us cause that's what we agreed for one another, but yea, I do think we need to talk...

I think maybe he had that idea when he said it? I did advise him that while shes in the relationship to not say that kinda thing, as i figured it would be disrespectful. But then we again hadn't really discussed what we'd be down for yet. Part of why I freaked out, I wasn't sure of the details...

Yeah, this is why I've been hoping to have a group chat. I'm not wanting to push that the relationships have to happen, but us being aware of one another's boundaries and feelings seems really important. Like, communication and consideration come foremost, it seems like. And my bf and I went a...

An update here. I've spoken with my bf and have calmed down a fair bit. You see, um... We had a conversation at one point. He brought up being interested in her, and I agreed it would be cool if she joined us. The conversation was "okay we're both interested" and "damn it's cool to be in a...

Oh no, we haven't had sex with her. We've been friends with her for years. We just thought she was sweet and cool, kinda just agreed to see if she might be interested. I've already set about reading what you've sent, and I sent my bf a message saying that maybe we should talk about this...

I'll give it a look, thanks! We basically just said that we were interested in her romantically, and if she wanted to become our gf, we'd be down. As well, if she wasn't, we're cool with staying friends. I did tell her as well that if she had any questions, we're available

My bf and I have discussed it for a while. We're not really the "casual encounter" type, like we'd only consider a friend to join us. And so we did. The thought of the 3 of us cuddling and being in love makes my heart soar. However, I'm not wanting to let my feelings get the best of me. Respect...