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So let me get this straight: Me - replaced, neglected, betrayed, make far more money, give her a nice home and a comfy lifestyle Her - less money, boyfriend she gives all of herself to, does less around the house since this started, wants money to spend on/for him And I'm supposed to allow...

There is honestly no possible contract we could come up with that will make it anymore fair for me. I make too much, she makes too little. Even if she got a part time job and took over every chore around the house, it would fall grossly short. I already mentioned once that she couldn't spend my...

Actually when I came here and started, I did feel left behind. I admit I am not the most mentally stable person in the world, but I am quite in tune with my own feelings, needs, wants. Yes, I started to push her away. At first it was a defense mechanism. Then it just became anger. Now it's...

My wife told me he said that, I guess it was supposed to be a joke. This was said closely before my testosterone treatments started working.

I do want to start by saying I do not resent or ressit any type of input or advice at all. That is why I posted. I actually agree with you. I feel like I am coming off as whiny. I am in a place I never imagined. I am jealous and I never used to be jealous. I am hurt by someone I never thought...

Well I went out of town for four days last week and spent time with that girlfriend that isn't really a girlfriend anymore but we still love each other. She can't believe we're going through this at all. She tried and fought hard to keep distance, but she threw her hat into this ring of chaos...

I read your article and it was very informative, but I have to stipulate that I never agreed or even was consulted on how far this was going to begin with. At first, I checked out and didn't want to hear about it. Then when I "came back" with the testosterone therapy and my fog lifted, I found I...

Well I went away for a few days to clear my head. When i came back, she had a talk with him and they both admitted they had fallen in love. So at least now it makes sense why she reacted the way she did. Now the problem is, I am not the primary with her anymore. That doesn't sit right with me...

Curious question about NRE: How long does it generally last? This thing with them started in November. The Dom/sub thing started maybe around Jan.

More really good things to think about. Thank you so much.

Well she saw the post (left open on my computer) and of course it's 90% anger because she feels I didn't tell the whole story (she could be right, but rereading it i think she's more upset that it was my perspective) and 10% hurt that I felt so negatively about her. Apparently though, since I...

Galagirl you are hitting some very valid things that are really close to home for me (it's a good thing). So for the background questions: I do suffer from moderate PTSD, Anxiety, and Major Depressive Disorder (the first two due to military service, the third due to incidents before and during...

I'd like to clarify the uncertainties so the convo can continue on with the most accurate information. #1 was what she expressed to me since day one of our relationship. Yes, she tried and entertained it, no it didn't work out. Throughout the years I would revisit it, she was still "nope, it...

A good point was brought up about not owning my wife's body. Very true. I do admit, complete honestly, that sometimes it is easy for me to get caught up in the "this is mine" mentality. I also, complete honesty, reflect when I feel that way and remember that she and I are both individuals and...

I'm having some trouble, I am a late 40s man married to a late 30s woman for over 15 yrs now. From day 1 of our relationship, we have not been traditional. We've been swinging, playing with the cuckold/hotwife thing on a few short term occasions, and we both knew we were poly able. I was in the...