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    PenguinDreams, hmm should I change Penguin to something else as well? Yes, I call him my lobster partly in reference to the Friends scene :) Anyway, my Penguin is most definitely insterested. He wants to me to come visit, but until Crash is comfortable with it I won't even consider it. We had...
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    thats what I feel as well, but my husband disagrees so for now we will keep it quiet :) oh and I think from now on I will refer to him as Crash instead of Lobster. hopefully there's no one else that goes by that nick.. I can't edit my posts though :(
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    Hi! yeah thats what we decided to to, I've just sent that message to Penguin and if he's interested I will ask him to keep any flirting to whispers and that we won't be open about it out of respect to Lobster. People can be really close-minded and he doesn't want the talk behind our backs. we...
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    :) thanks for the welcome. I've been lurking these boards for a while now.. you all seem like really nice people. online vs face to face.. if we do end up dating I would want to meet him face to face of course.. but to me thats not a deal breaker. we live in different countries, but airfare is...
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    me and my husband, I'll call him Lobster, have decided to change our relationship from monogamous to polyamorous. I guess I've always been poly, but not until now I've found a name for it and can accept that part of myself. Lobster is supprtive, and is says he's happy we're doing this. I feel...
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