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Hello everyone! I've posted quite a few times seeking advice on a moving out of a toxic situation. A short summary is that I found myself in a relationship that was built on the idea of polyamory and openness, but for a variety of reasons (namely control issues), I wasn't able to seek other...

Hi to anyone who has read any of my other posts! Long story short, I took Red's absence because of work travel as an opportunity to get out. The decision has been incredibly difficult, but our relationship is toxic at this point and if there is anything left to salvage, living separately is the...

This boards have been so immensely helpful! I thought I would put another situation out there. Relationship context: I am in a V with Red and Blue. Red is the hinge. Red and Blue have been together for 9 years. They began closed then opened up their relationship because Red identifies as...

Short context: I'm in a V with Red and Blue. Red is the hinge, and I have been essentially monogamous to him. It has been almost 2 years since my last individual sexual experience, but Red and I often have sexual experiences with a third person or at events. The story: Recently Red met...

I'm wondering if anyone has a story or insight to share on moving out of an apartment shared with a partner (or in my case partners). I am currently in a V that began more as a triad, but a variety of things led to our relationship evolving (including scheduling, sexual preferences, an intense...

Part of a V triad and we all live together. I'll name one B and one C B did something that really hurt C, and it was amplified further by the act being during a particularly vulnerable time for C. I've been simmering on it for a few days and the more I simmer the more resentment I feel toward...

I'm wondering if anyone has experience in a triad where you moved in together, but the shared space made the relationship really challenging (lack of space, individuality, personal time). One partner feels they are stretched very thin because they have to cater to the other two partners, and...