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Well, I opened the box finally and the vial appears to have broken and killed the cat. In the last months AB and I have grown farther apart. I had begun distancing myself when my medication had started to work and I felt there was not avail to trying to get close to her. It seemed the best I...

Her feelings and actions, were the roles reversed, have nothing to do with the situation I am in now, and will not help me further. Thanks for thinking along though : ) Good question. I think she finds it rather difficult that I am without a second partner, and have just myself and her as my...

I’m sorry for the cutting in your text; you have a lot of valid points. The legal connection is something I would want to establish with her, or at least so how they would feel about the matter; if such a thing is even an option. The time to be clear about it, must come still, because I first...

Thank you for writing so empathically and clearly, it does help to have a bit of an overview. It is clear that one choice smells definitely the least, and that would be number 1. I do care about DNA, but I wanted to be a teacher/mentor/guardian since I was fourteen, and have studied both...

I have taken plenty of moments to talk about it, but one of my S.O.'s traumas is that she feels extremely quickly attacked when people address her on her behaviour or discuss matters in which she can establish "guilt", even though there is no guilt at all. Me telling her that I feel rejected...

I have. She sometimes says things in the vein of 'Whoever gets me pregnant first...' (our sex life is rather... absent, so yeah.), sometimes tries to give me rational reasons ('He told me I'd look beautiful pregnant the first time we were intimate' / 'He is a few years older than you and he...

Haha, thank you for replying. I'm going to spare myself having to translate everything to English so I'll just immediately write it ; ) I must say I found it hard to find any decent Poly forums, so I'm glad if this is a good one : )

Thank you for replying. I guess everyone has a different view on what they want from life, and everything you do is to satisfy your ego in my opinion. Claiming these things to be "stupid" and "shallow" is rather disrespectful in my opinion and I find it hard to see how your reply contributes to...

I'm a natively Dutch guy currently living in Germany with my German partner (6 years), who has another partner (1 year) who lives a few hours away. We've opened our relationship three years ago but have become fully polyamorous last year. We are currently exploring the territory of having a...

TL;DR (for the complete story, please scroll up) I’m ready to have children in the sense that I am emotionally stable enough, can afford it both time-wise and financially and have been wanting to have children for more than ten years. My partner and I have been together long enough, but due to...

Will post TL;DR in the first post below (character limit) Long version -Years leading to opening the relationship- My S.O. (who I will call AB from now on) and I got close rather quickly, even though we both lived in different countries. AB moved to my home country (let’s call it PA), learned...

I'm a natively Dutch guy currently living in Germany with my German partner (6 years), who has another partner (1 year) who lives a few hours away. We've opened our relationship three years ago but have become fully polyamorous last year. We are currently exploring the territory of having a...