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    My Girlfriend is Poly, I am not. Please help me understand

    I understand I will get less time with my girlfriend, but this month We haven't been our usual selves all the flirting and playfulness has vanished. she has been staying over at the other men's places 2-3 times a week I can't help feel like i'm being replaced and we have spoken nearly every...
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    My Girlfriend is Poly, I am not. Please help me understand

    Galagirl yes she agreed to them just got off the phone with her and had a long talk she feels devastated today has been very long for me I started today wanting to learn more and imbrace this part of who she is. now it ended with tears. Wales is really far away people dont justpop on over for...
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    My Girlfriend is Poly, I am not. Please help me understand

    Thank you everyone for helping me to understand I will talk to my partner about everything we have said. You really have helped. At the start I only gave my girlfriend 2 rules to be safe and to let me know where she was especially staying overnight or a weekend. After 3 weeks of seeing other...
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    My Girlfriend is Poly, I am not. Please help me understand

    This is a very insightful I agree our dynamic has changed. In time i'm sure things will go back to me not being just a parent. I want her to think of me like she did before. Thank you so much, this really helps. (I also stopped calling her by her pet name, which was a strong part of our...
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    My Girlfriend is Poly, I am not. Please help me understand

    I wouldn't call myself exclusive, but when in past relationships i have only ever had that one parter. when single I see more than one person at a time. If a friend wanted to sleep with me and my girlfriend had no problem with it I can't tell if I would or wouldn't. Not really. it's more like I...
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    My Girlfriend is Poly, I am not. Please help me understand

    Thank you KC43 for everything you have said, I have learned alot from reading through the forum. I will take your suggestion and continue to communicate openly to my partner. I understand the flirting I do it to my friends and at work making innuendos and stuff (it can be thrilling and...
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    My Girlfriend is Poly, I am not. Please help me understand

    Hello everyone, I'm a 25 yo Male. I hope you don't mind me (a monogamous person) posting on your forum, but i just wanted to talk to someone about the relationship I am in. I have known my girlfriend for 10 years and we have been dating for 3, we have a 1 yo daughter together. My girlfriend had...
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