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:( Yes, I feel like I do. But perhaps on that day I felt frustrated, or too alone. My master and I are learning each other, I think. Letting go of your own power, when you are very strong, isn't easy. At the same time, you are building trust (if the relationship is to grow and blossom), and...

I think I have a master, is why. The whole reason I'm like this now, is because of him. He's melded me into who I am. She's irreplaceable. No one else can be my Master.

I happen to be poly, within limits, which I've elaborated on in another thread I started. Not interested in Fetlife at this time, though thank you for suggesting it. I'm not really vanilla, fwiw. I'm more like chocolate raspberry truffle. With rainbow sprinkles. :p Yeah.

It is so interesting. Like a whole new world to discover. :) Yes, I think it would be very energy-demanding being a Dom, at least a good one, because you are giving so much attention to learning your sub. I fully appreciate that and am amazed by it-- that anyone would want to know me that...

Alrighty then. :D

:cool: Do tell us in detail what you liked about it, please.

That's not the play I'm talking about. That's just sort-of obvious communication. :) I'm talking about proper switching of the roles for a bit.

Switch What I'm finding in my realm is that most of the time my Master knows best, and I prefer to be sub. But sometimes I know best. Master doesn't like to switch out of masterly mode with me, I don't think, but eventually does it anyway, because respect is involved and we take that very...

Nice. my new fav. <3

Wow. That is sort-of awesome. Better than late than never, eh? :)

I meant me as in me personally, Aphrodite. :) Not as it regards D/s. I find that my friends and acquaintances seem to meet people whom they would date more quickly and easily, leading me to believe I'm either more discerning than most, or more difficult to get to know (guarded) than I...

Hi.

I understand. <3 Sounds like you had a tough life. I'm assuming you are referring to a father figure?

Oh. Yeah... I guess I thought of 24/7 as being a testament to the subtle energy between the people involved, not necessarily being collared. Like hanging out in the house because your partner doesn't want you to go out for the day/night. Or wearing a butt plug all day because he wants my ass to...

Interesting! I think that the way I am--the way I'm twisted and the way I've turned in my life--means I am cognizant of the 24/7 thing. So even though I'm too dominant to be sub 24/7, I suspect that my partner will be sub when I'm not. And it would definitely exist outside the bedroom! That...

Well, I think that there are as many relationship variations as there are people. :) If you prefer to have different partners fill different roles, then that is great for you. Do you find that you do much discipline with your relationship with your 'guys'? Or is it more about S & M with them?

Thank you. It's been quite a road of discovery for me. :eek: Part of wanting a master is also just seeking the right mate for me. When I find someone worthy to mate with, who also wants to forego lusts of the flesh and other materialistic pursuits in exchange for greater depth and meaning in...

I'd like to find someone worthy of dominating me. I'd like to find someone to fit me that way. Someone to pull my strings and make me move how they want me to move, which is also how I need to move (for me). Someone as intense as me, who can tone me down and make me behave and get a grip. But...

What's a furry?

Oh, Thanks! I perused that and I think it's too long to read, and I think it's necessary to specify the difference between bdsm and D/s, D/s being a specific type, or subcategory, of bdsm.