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    how to go from open to closed?

    We are new to poly and in a polyfiquad. Right now we want to navigate this/these relationship(s) before considering opening it up to others. Our quad is our primary concern, so we are taking care of it first. We want a solid foundation under our quad because we consider it our family and that to...
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    Need advice, or encouraging word (long read)

    Talked to A tonight for a long while. G2 has been right. A was putting distance between herself and us on purpose. She was having some issues in her marriage with S. She opened up to me finally and we talked. She's dealing eith her personal issues and talking with S about their marriage. Things...
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    Need advice, or encouraging word (long read)

    Today has been my day to freak out. I know my freak out stems from fear. I have so many fears in this but probably not the ones most people have. I'm not scared of this hurting my relationship with G2. I'm not afraid of anyone loving another in our quad more. I am afraid that now that i have...
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    The unicorn in the room

    We are going thru something similar with 1 member of our quad. this has helped me in figuring out how to help her with her issues over me and S. thanks for posting this.
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    Need advice, or encouraging word (long read)

    May I add all 4 of us put the other part of our lives on hold last couple months. Now we are having to try to balance our lives with our quad relationship(s). This is not easy and I know it means from time to time 1 or more of us may not get the time we feel we need and deserve. I'm not trying...
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    Quad Thoughts

    B and I are in a quad. We are still in dating stages. We stumbled into this by accident to be honest. We were planning to swing with the couple and through talking it quickly became more on all parts before swinging ever even happened. We have had our moments because honestly this is new to all...
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