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So I joined this forum around 7 years ago, entirely new to poly, and have been on quite a journey since then. Originally I was very reluctant about poly, and unsure, but over time grew to enjoy it. When my first poly relationship(s) ended, I went back to monogamy but it didn't feel right. I...

Hi! I've seen a lot of people on this forum who find love quite frequently/easily. What about those of you who have a bit more trouble falling in love? Those who don't manage it easily/often? I'm one of those people. I can really like someone, be really attracted to them, get on with them in...

I've seen a few posts on here in the past where people have had problems with their sex drive or, more specifically, their lack there of. Does anyone have any tips on what to do if you find your sex drive seriously waning? For the last 12 months mine has been steadily falling to the point...

Background: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, been living together about 8 months. When we first got together, he stated that he was not comfortable in monogamous relationships, I knew that I would have some difficulty with this but also was aware, that if given the right support...

I've been reading posts on here for coming up to a year now and there's something that keeps confusing me. So many people's posts include some sort of I'm bi so it only makes sense that I'm poly, or a partner explains that they only just found out that their partner is poly but they shoud've...

Bah! I've just had a big emotional chat message off with my partner out of nowhere, all becuase of attractiveness. We were talking about a week ago about people we've found attractive and he started talking about women that are in a different league to others, women who pretty much all would...

I guess this is more of an angsty/disgusted announcement than anything else really: I was on a night out tonight and was explaining my relationship and what it entailed to friend at the pub. One of our friends next to us overheard and was very impressed by the idea of a woman who was okay with...

Hi I'm Josie, I'm 19 and I've been in an open relationship for over a year now. I would not describe my self as polyamorous but more as 'currently not monogamous'. Before my current partner I had only ever been in monogamous relationships, however, he is polyamorous and so we agreed to enter...