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Thanks for all the help everybody! This thread has been really eye-opening for me. I actually came into this forum without much knowledge of the polyamory world, just seeking help for an immediate problem I felt I couldn't quite solve on my own, and looking for open-minded people to help me sort...

Again, if I were single and he was married this would be my exact instinct. But I don't know, something about this feels so different. He's a good guy, so in all likelihood this is just not gonna happen anyway cause he would never make the first move. But who knows, maybe they also have some...

Dagferi thanks for the brutally honest reply, I guess I needed to hear it. You're right, this whole thing smells of deceitfulness and dishonesty and I hate it. I'm really on the fence about the DADT issue even though I insisted on it. The reason I insisted was that the thought of knowing that...

That depends I wouldn't seduce him, persuade him to cheat or actively try to make him do something he's not comfortable with. If anything, I'd wait for him to make the first move, which is why this whole scenario is unlikely to begin with. However I don't have such a big moral dilemma on...

Husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for 2, no kids yet (still young). We've discussed open relationship even before marriage, recently we talked again and both agreed that we're allowed to be with other people. Rules we set were: 1. Don't ask don't tell. I don't wanna know if...