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hi Austin Hey Austin! I too found the word for the first time within the past several . It has changed my life to say the least! It is so much better to not feel like a freak or just a bad person for loving more than one, eh? I have not told any friends either... but that will come...

Hello Aveena, So sorry that you are in so much pain. Hang in there! A few thoughts… Don’t keep your feelings to yourself. You are suffering, and you should not feel bad about it, because you are feeling the things a person does in these situations. You are very normal. There is nothing wrong...

Hi Hi Scutches! And yes, what a relief to be able to identify and accept what it is that it is! A real holiday...

Hey! SeventhCrow, I too was raised in fundamentalist church (you made that comment on my intro thread). Talk about a compromised start, eh? I figured out when I was 13 that they were all crazy and I then stopped attending church. Yet so much of it stuck with me in my wiring and internal...

Hi Lauren Hi Lauren, Thanks for saying hi on my post too. I think your husband and I have some things in common. So maybe I can help you some, I would at least like to try. Just so you know, I love my wife very much (always have and will), but I did fall very much in love with a close...

Hey! Blackdog, Being lonely is no fun at all… hang in there! I hope this kind of thing helps… As far as what you can ask of her and what time frame? There are 2 basic and very smart poly rules that in the last couple of years could have spared my loved ones and myself a whoopin’ lot of...

Hi Hi Leslie, You are no freak. One of the reasons I joined this site is because of your introduction, as I have also felt that way for a while. So thank you! It is a relief to me to know that their are people out there that you don't have to explain things to. Anyway, you are a normal...

Hello Everyone! I am Drew, 45, married and straight, and live in the northeast USA. I have recently found out the hard way that I am poly. I fell in love with my good friend. Oh boy! It was the real thing… But I did not know anything about “poly” until after the fact. Oops!!! And so...